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To think you don't quite realise how badly the NHS is suffering until you witness it first hand

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DaisyCat33 · 01/02/2024 20:40

My parents are sitting in A&E today. They've just hit 12 hours. My dad was sent there by his GP for severe neck pain this morning. He's had morphine and an MRI scan, but they're now endlessly waiting to see a Dr about results. He hasn't even got a bed to lay on, despite debilitating neck pain. Many people are standing or sitting on the floor.

The couple sitting next to them have been there since 3am, for difficultly breathing.

I'm shocked. Honestly I knew the NHS had it's issues, but this bad?! It's frightening. I also had an email the other day saying my NHS dentist is closing, and it's basically a "well sorry no dentist for you any more, bye bye"

I don't really know the point of this thread really, I just feel shocked and upset that this is how it is. And I think a lot of people don't even realise? My parents definitely didn't until today. They are losing the will to live sat in that hospital.

Does anyone else just feel utterly helpless and anxious about this?

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Ohgollymolly · 03/02/2024 07:32

BarbaraWoodlouse1 · 03/02/2024 07:17

NHS worker here. It’s horrendous. Being sold off piece by piece to their Tory mates. I remember the days when we had a diary and enough staff to cover sickness and annual leave. Heartbreaking. So many people are leaving to work for private companies. I only stay for the poor patients. I ran a support group the other day. I had to buy all the refreshments. £15.

You know it was good old Tony Blair that first started selling off parts of the NHS, right?

RosesAndHellebores · 03/02/2024 07:34

In the sector I work in we cannot hire UK trained people to do the work we need doing. Therefore we sponsor skilled workers to come to the UK from overseas. If a highly skilled person arrives with wife and two children they have to pay an NHS surcharge of about £7,500 to cover them for the three years.

In my area, London, there is a grave shortage of skilled staff, even at admin levels. Domestically my cleaner is from Eastern Europe, my gardeners are Portugese. We need immigration if there are insufficient people to do the work.

Further my father was a German/Jewish refugee, arriving in the UK in 1938, my grandfather a Russian emigre arriving in the UK in the early 1920's with their family. My grandmother's family came from Ireland in the 1860s. All immigrants, all refugees - they all worked very hard and paid all necessary taxes.

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:36

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:24

Absolute rubbish! I have no issue with students coming here.

The conservatives are at least fighting for change and going through the courts. Starmer kept entirely silent on the issue I noticed, but at some point he will be forced to show his open borders hand and I wonder what his supporters will do then. Those that are already tolerating classes that are too big, no GP appointments, no housing, no hospital beds.

We have become allergic to the truth - and the truth is we need to pause immigration and get to grips with the infrastructure and look after the citizens that already live here. Starmers open borders will be an unmitigated disaster for our country.

What you think we should open our borders to 500k students each year?? open borders indeed.

How about we fund Uni's properly so they no longer offer courses with v low entry requirements to over seas students?

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:39

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:25

I remember who you are. I can see why it benefits hostile states for Labour to get in…

So Tories will just carry on pouring money into the "failed" NHS.

So we have a Tory Govt giving us open borders, asylum to known sex offenders and no reform of the NHS (all your words)

Good to know.

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:39

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:36

What you think we should open our borders to 500k students each year?? open borders indeed.

How about we fund Uni's properly so they no longer offer courses with v low entry requirements to over seas students?

Yes we can build new hospitals and fund universities why not! From your magical bottomless pit of money….

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:40

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:39

So Tories will just carry on pouring money into the "failed" NHS.

So we have a Tory Govt giving us open borders, asylum to known sex offenders and no reform of the NHS (all your words)

Good to know.

Is it sunny in Moscow do we think?

Ohgollymolly · 03/02/2024 07:40

CelestiaNoctis · 03/02/2024 02:38

I waited 13 hours in a&e for unbearable back pain. All they did was ply me with more and more drugs until they gave me morphine. Eventually they just gave me some very heavy duty medication and told me to book a scan on my back through my gp. I had to convince the lady next to me who had a suspected heart attack to stay after she had been there the same amount of time as me. Luckily I did because when her results came back she had had a heart attack and needed to be admitted for observation. I dread to think what would have happened if she'd left! But after 13 hours, you obviously need to go to sleep or wash or eat a proper meal so you start considering leaving even in a bad state. It's awful.

But unbearable back pain isn’t an accident or emergency, is it? They literally cannot do anything for that, it requires further investigation which you can be referred to by a GP.

Better still, try a chiropractor!

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:43

We need a political party that is brave enough to tackle this and switch to the Australian model. Streeting is angry enough to make it happen, granted, but he won’t get past the simpering hard left.

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:46

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:39

Yes we can build new hospitals and fund universities why not! From your magical bottomless pit of money….

Edited

£20 billion given away in tax cuts (benefiting the rich the most)

Plenty of money to fund Uni's

Calling me a Russian Troll/Troll hunting is defo against MN rules.

Dapbag · 03/02/2024 07:47

Newchapterbeckons · 02/02/2024 21:26

Ha! Please tell me you are joking… I can’t tell, but taking you at your word. It’s going to take a shit load more than ‘will’ !!!!!!

You haven’t offered even a single Labour solution to anything you have listed, and nor will you. Because if there is one thing the Brexit supporters seemed to grasp is that you simply cannot continue to allow millions to arrive if you can’t look after the millions that already live here.

We are in dire straits and climate change is going to make things even worse. We are going to see mass movement of tens of millions. We need to work out a solution and fast, I have zero confidence in Starmer and Angela.

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Not joking at all.

Have a look at Labour's website. It tells you exactly what their plan is and how they plan to fund it - partly by closing tax loop holes for non doms - something the Tories haven't 'had the will' to do.

Really interested to hear how you think Brexit has worked out with stopping millions arriving.

The Tories have failed to address uncontrolled immigration or climate change over the last 14 years....you, unless you are a joker yourself you must surely have less than zero confidence in their will or ability to do anything about these issues

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:50

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:43

We need a political party that is brave enough to tackle this and switch to the Australian model. Streeting is angry enough to make it happen, granted, but he won’t get past the simpering hard left.

No such party exists, not even Reform, who are bunch of right wing anti vaxxers.

Hard left? nah, they are out of Labour for at least a generation.

If Labour have the time (2 terms) they'll fix the NHS.

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:51

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 07:46

£20 billion given away in tax cuts (benefiting the rich the most)

Plenty of money to fund Uni's

Calling me a Russian Troll/Troll hunting is defo against MN rules.

I do t think I said you were troll….

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:53

Hard left are firmly part of the current Labour Party. What do you think their deputy leader is for example. A full blooded Corbynite is what she is. I am always surprised at how uneducated labour supporters are when it comes to their own party.

NotBadConsidering · 03/02/2024 07:58

Ohgollymolly · 03/02/2024 07:40

But unbearable back pain isn’t an accident or emergency, is it? They literally cannot do anything for that, it requires further investigation which you can be referred to by a GP.

Better still, try a chiropractor!

An efficient health system tells someone how to manage their back pain quicker than 13 hours.

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 08:01

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:53

Hard left are firmly part of the current Labour Party. What do you think their deputy leader is for example. A full blooded Corbynite is what she is. I am always surprised at how uneducated labour supporters are when it comes to their own party.

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Lol Rayner is no Corbynite, her politics is fairly centralist, the Corbynites got banished to the back benches once Starmer became leader or in the case of Corbyn, had the whip withdrawn.

Rayner at best, is described as "Soft Left"

Labour, in a European context would be a right of centre party, with the Tories somewhat to the right of Meloni, the love in between Sunak and Georgia Meloni was rather embarrassing, you'd have thought she was his lover, such was the warmth & chemistry between them.

Freysimo · 03/02/2024 08:02

LuluBlakey1 · 02/02/2024 21:32

I feel so bad about what is happening to her. I'm not her biggest fan, she can be very difficult but she is so ill and frail and exhausted and scared and the NHS does not care. Wednesday 'It could go either way, she is very sick'. Thursday 'She is a very sick person and nowhere near out of the woods' Friday 'She is well enough to be discharged today.'

92, double pneumonia, so weakened by it she can not stand or walk, or lift a normal cup, is blind, skeletal, no appetite, bowels not working, constant pain in chest hips and back, confused, hallucinating still.

Personal care standards awful. Little compassion. Like a quick fix, of one issue, conveyor belt. Looks like pneumonia under control, off you go.

Your poor aunt, but at least she has a caring niece to advocate for her. Many poor souls don't.

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 08:03

Alexandra2001 · 03/02/2024 08:01

Lol Rayner is no Corbynite, her politics is fairly centralist, the Corbynites got banished to the back benches once Starmer became leader or in the case of Corbyn, had the whip withdrawn.

Rayner at best, is described as "Soft Left"

Labour, in a European context would be a right of centre party, with the Tories somewhat to the right of Meloni, the love in between Sunak and Georgia Meloni was rather embarrassing, you'd have thought she was his lover, such was the warmth & chemistry between them.

Your posts are very revealing.

I don’t want to engage with you anymore. Thanks all the same. You give yourself away.

Dapbag · 03/02/2024 08:03

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 07:57

And this is why labours plan will backfire:

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-64318959.amp

The article says 'could' fail because it might encourage non doms to leave BUT importantly it includes this - so the whole article is speculation based on nothing really.

"Studies of tax data show very few non-doms responded to previous reforms by leaving the UK. One paper by the London School of Economics and the University of Warwick says the reforms in 2017 "led to just 0.2% of long-staying non-doms leaving the UK".
"Our best estimate is therefore that the same would be true if the regime were further curtailed or abolished," says Arun Advani, an economist and one of the study's authors.

Abolishing the non-dom regime would raise more than £3.2 billion each year, finds new report

Non-domiciled residents in the UK ('non-doms') receive at least £10.9 billion in offshore income and capital gains each year.

https://www.lse.ac.uk/News/Latest-news-from-LSE/2022/i-September-22/Abolishing-the-non-dom-regime-would-raise-more-than-3.2-billion-each-year-finds-new-report

Freysimo · 03/02/2024 08:05

justasking111 · 02/02/2024 23:36

My GP returned from South Africa after 20 years. Her advice to me after seeing how the NHS was going down hill was to take out private health insurance. This was ten years ago. She reckoned that it would come crashing down five years ago. She wasn't far out.

But there's no private A and E is there? You'll still take your chances.

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 08:08

Dapbag · 03/02/2024 08:03

The article says 'could' fail because it might encourage non doms to leave BUT importantly it includes this - so the whole article is speculation based on nothing really.

"Studies of tax data show very few non-doms responded to previous reforms by leaving the UK. One paper by the London School of Economics and the University of Warwick says the reforms in 2017 "led to just 0.2% of long-staying non-doms leaving the UK".
"Our best estimate is therefore that the same would be true if the regime were further curtailed or abolished," says Arun Advani, an economist and one of the study's authors.

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We will see capital flight and investment drain out of the country, just what we need!! 🙄

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 08:08

Newchapterbeckons · 03/02/2024 08:08

We will see capital flight and investment drain out of the country, just what we need!! 🙄

There is no such thing as ‘easy money’

EasternStandard · 03/02/2024 08:10

On Nom Doms how many choose to stay past the period where it expires?

If most use the system to stay within Nom Dom definition to avoid losing that status then I don’t see why they wouldn’t do the same

Eg avoid us altogether as there is no period in which they will have that status

Dibblydoodahdah · 03/02/2024 08:12

Would love to see how £3.2 billion of non-dom money is going to fix the NHS. People are deluded. It’s a drop in the ocean of the already huge NHS budget.

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