AIBU? Yes, probably and perhaps a little childish into the bargain, but.....

[Janos]

Ah well, here goes.

My blardy bloke has not bothered to contact me all day despite the fact we were SUPPOSED to be meeting up tomorrow for the easter weekend?

It's out of character for him and no doubt there is a reason but still I'm feeling pissed off. A quick message saying I'm busy but will be in touch later/tomorrow whatever surely isn't too much trouble is it? Git!

Bah fecking humbug!!

you could've by the same token sent quick message ..you ok?..still on? or some such?

my mum always says i will phone you on such such date and after this o'clock..bugs me really
is he like this?
i just call if i someone if i need to...

hth

Ah I didn't make that clear Dee, I did send a hello how are you message earlier and then later a message saying hope you;re ok as I haven't heard from you.

TBH I am just feeling a liked narked/worried as it is out of character plus worrying have I upset him somehow? Probably just silly things really.

Thank you for replying and it does help

Does he know the finer details of the meeting tomorrow? If yes, then perhaps he feels there's no need to contact you about it.

Just trying to think all logical and bloke like here

I wouldn't text him again today.

I'm not going to. I'm not a huge texter anyway...just you know...feeling a little peeved! That is all.

What age is he?

Have you been with him long?

When was the last time you had contact with him?

Right, I'm going to do something else so I don't sit around dwelling on this. I may have to mention it when I see him though.

Ah, he's a few years younger than me, WallofSilence.

We have been together 2months (so not that long really).

We had contact last night.

I know it, I'm being daft, aren't I?

bit orf then janos in that case
you've done your bit
sit back and seethe relax
have a bath

does he have landline i'd call him on that incase phone lost or something and leave it..

Well I'm well and truly embarrassed and a little ashamed at starting this thread now as he has just texted me to say that his gran collapsed and had to be taken into hospital.

So I can answer my own AIBU with a resounding YES!

Thank you all for listening though.

And I haven't mentioned that she will be OK and of course that is his main priority.

Right, now I will shut up before I dig an even bigger hole.

dont upset yourself dearie i'm okay
did he ever tell you that i mn too? (on the grans boards mainly)

LOL thank you healthy gran

Have sent him a message saying let me know if you need anything or a chat and just left it there.

Thanks again y'all.

bah humbug

don't you mean bah easter egg

lol

also don't let him see this, otherwise he will think your a crazy stalker lol