I have been in a relationship for around 8 months, things good at first but I noticed a change in behaviour a few weeks ago , being weird with his phone etc he is also extremely paranoid and is accusing me of cheating a lot. He has been very distant and I’ve noticed withholding affection/sex. When I bring this up he tries to turn it back around onto me.
I was with him yesterday and someone added me on Snapchat, it was a quick add so it was just someone random, he blew it way out of proportion and started an argument. He said some hurtful things (most men wouldn’t want a single mother) He then refused to talk to me all night and wouldn’t get into bed next to me and said If he did I shouldn’t touch him - this ran through until the next day when I told him his reaction is definitely not normal to something so small. I told him I wanted some space as the constant accusations and the fact he’s been so distant lately is making me suspicious and I don’t want to feel like that, he then all of sudden started crying and was asking me not to leave, I left and now he’s constantly ringing my phone on a no caller id, texting me saying I’ve broken his heart and that I’m heartless etc and he feels like he opened up to me I’ve betrayed his trust? But I haven’t actually done anything I just can’t take the constant accusations and coldness.