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Fair sleep rota (newborn)

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ScionTheFox · 28/01/2024 00:48

We have a 3 week old baby. She does not yet sleep more then 1.5 hours at a time so I’m quite sleep deprived. She is BF but I pump at my husbands requests so he can help with night feeds.

He works and starts at 6am so I do all of the feeds Sunday to Friday with a view that he will help on a Saturday night so I can catch up on sleep.

I am really tired and I’ve had real trouble with my scar opening up this week from all the getting her in and out of her crib so many times a night.

However tonight on his night he has passed out on the sofa so my only opportunity for a night off has left until next week.

AIBU to be annoyed.

OP posts:
MammaTo · 28/01/2024 08:07

ScionTheFox · 28/01/2024 01:28

He finishes at 2pm

Pardon?

So he works 6am-2pm and does none of the feeds when he gets home or let’s you sleep when he gets back?

He needs kicking into touch now and it needs nipping in the bud or I’m sorry to say you’ll have a lifetime of this.

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