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Celebs that give you strange vibes

355 replies

Nightsgettingabitlighter · 23/01/2024 21:44

Sort of related to another thread trending about Woo feelings and vibes from people or places. Some people have mentioned celebrities, many people said Saville, even my mum said they all knew he was very strange.
Any other people?

OP posts:
Switchandflake · 25/01/2024 15:55

Haven’t RTFT, but it’s Oprah for me. I know everyone loves her, I just feel like she isn’t the person she seems.

shrunkenhead · 25/01/2024 16:17

@Nightsgettingabitlighter yes, he has been investigated but I think there's a lot more to it. Probably won't come out until after his death when it's too late...

StarvingMarvin222 · 25/01/2024 16:23

I've never took to her or DR.Phil.
I just think they exploit vulnerable people.

SerafinasGoose · 25/01/2024 16:50

Nicky Campbell has been the victim of horrific abuse.

This is not to suggest abuse victims are incapable of inflicting abuse themselves, but it certainly doesn't make them particularly susceptible to doing so. According to at least one consultant clinical psychiatrist I know and my own psychotherapist, that theory has been effectively debunked.

This is someone who has bravely spoken out about his own dreadful experiences - it's even more taboo, sadly, when a man is the victim - in order to use them to help others. It seems particularly cruel to see his name appear alongside the likes of Savile and Harris on a 'people who give me the creeps' shit list.

Iwasafool · 25/01/2024 17:03

My husband has a theory that people make us feel uncomfortable if they strongly resemble someone we know. He thinks it is a if they are impersonating them although they aren't. I did think it was mad but a couple of times I've found it was true so maybe that explains some of the times when we feel uncomfortable.

Willyoujustbequiet · 25/01/2024 17:26

FKAT · 25/01/2024 13:47

I put Katie Price in the same bucket as Kardashians and Suella Braverman - yes they are not great people but their detractors are usually a million times worse.

As soon as some bloke starts slagging any of them off I put him on my shit list, regardless of whether he has a point. There are some men (F4J being a prime example) who take misogynistic delight in identifying, isolating and bullying 'bad women' because they can get others to join in.

Exactly.

I'm not a huge fan of KP but F4J and the like are walking red flags. I'm immediately suspicious of anyone who aligns with them.

Ramalangadingdong · 25/01/2024 19:49

Switchandflake · 25/01/2024 15:55

Haven’t RTFT, but it’s Oprah for me. I know everyone loves her, I just feel like she isn’t the person she seems.

Edited

I think Taraji P Henson agrees with you.

User4653566 · 25/01/2024 20:50

Nightsgettingabitlighter · 25/01/2024 15:23

Aww, John Torode seems very lovely

Yes I find it very hard to dislike either of them after watching the Buttery Biscuit Bass video 😂

Mookie81 · 25/01/2024 21:33

Ramalangadingdong · 25/01/2024 19:49

I think Taraji P Henson agrees with you.

Interesting, why's that?

PabloPawcasso · 25/01/2024 21:52

Noel Fitzpatrick is like a sneaky priest off Father Ted

Itwasafterallallaboutme · 26/01/2024 03:50

2024GarlicCloves · 24/01/2024 06:50

@Itwasafterallallaboutme, you stretched a long way there in your eagerness to heap scorn on our species (also yours, I'll remind you!) Chimpanzees and bonobos in brackets, whom you chose not to mention again - was that because their vegetarian, "make love not war" tendencies didn't suit your hypothesis? I'd keenly dispute your idea that we're the most aggressive creatures, and even that no other species commits mass murder.

But none of that belongs on a thread about getting creepy vibes from celebrities 😄 I just wanted to recognise your post for giving me the first out-loud laugh of the day!

Oh, I know very well @2024GarlicCloves that I am a member of the human species, and I can only apologise to Gaia and the rest of the animal kingdom about that.

I am not hypothesising about us being the most aggressive species, or about us being the only ones to commit mass murder (I do not consider a whale sucking in thousands of plankton at the same time, as being mass murder, they are just having their dinner!). What I am doing is relaying a rather unpleasant truth. We humans are the most aggressive creatures on the planet.

I did not go on to talk about Bonobos exactly because they are not considered to be one of the most aggressive creatures on this planet. I was not, and am not, writing a thesis (which is just as well as I only have 5 'O' levels, so have no chance against all the amazingly intelligent women on this site, which probably includes you as well Garlic) so I have no intention of making this response even longer by adding all of the good qualities that at least some - and hopefully most - humans have.

I started my initial reply to someone else, who like me, likes Chris Packham, and I was trying to explain to other Mumsnetters a bit about why I like him, as they were saying that they didn't like him. I was just trying to point out that he has a very good heart, better than some other humans who really have a range of quite dark hearts, to totally dark and evil hearts - ok, brains if we want or need to be pedantic - but I didn't actually want to take it that far. For clarity (hopefully) I am not accusing any Mumsnetters of even having "quite dark hearts". Anyway, it was through Chris Packham that I expanded this thread to include my thoughts on one of the main differences between humans and other animals. I am certainly not trying to claim that Chris holds any of the same views that I do!

Back to how I disagree with you Garlic, and I think I might owe you an apology on the "mass murderer" front, because I wasn't at all clear by what I meant by "mass" murders.
By mass murderers I mean a person that kills at least 3, but sometimes many more people in one actual event. I am not talking about serial killers, who kill many people over a longitudinal period of time.

I don't believe that an animal can murder at all, because I don't believe that there is any animal that wakes up at the beginning of it's day, and thinks to itself:

"right I am totally fed up with Mr Badger who lives in the hole just on the otherside of that little hillock over there. Now what should I take with me when I go to kill him? Maybe I only need to sharpen my teeth and claws? Yes, I think that will do. Now when should I go? I think straight after I have had a light lunch, as he was up all night, so should be fast asleep by then..."

So, as I believe to commit murder one needs to have both the ability to intend to kill, and the ability to have planned the murder in advance (which I don't believe even a wiley fox can do - even though when you see so many dead hens in a coop, it certainly, and very sadly, looks like a mass murder has taken place) which I also don't believe any nonhuman animal can do, therefore imo a nonhuman animal cannot commit murder. However, I do know that it is a contentious issue amonst experts in different fields of expertise, and I am no expert, are you @2024GarlicCloves?

PS. I am very glad that I managed to give you a laugh-out-loud moment in your day - even though it was at me, rather than with me 🙈

Itwasafterallallaboutme · 26/01/2024 04:15

AinsleyHayes · 24/01/2024 12:52

This relies on people knowing where the line is, and given that one pp has blithely declared that she trusts MNHQ to protect her privacy at all costs and therefore feels free to post with impunity, I don't think that is a given.

I think you are talking about me blithely declaring that I trust MNHQ to protect my privacy, and I still do, from organisations like the press. I'm very sorry if I misled some Mumsnetters into thinking that I trusted them not to tell officials like our police force if I had broken any actual laws.

I hope that they would tell the police all that they know about any of us if we commit criminal offences. I can't remember what private information Mumsnet has about me, but if they don't have my home address and the Police wanted it because it looked like I had committed a criminal offence, then I would happilly give it to them - even though I can no longer trust every member of the Police Force to act with the integrity I once believed they had.

I also hope that I have not hurt anyones feelings on this thread. I try not to do so, as it selfishly does not fit in with my after death hopes/tentative plans... and no, I am not Catholic, in fact I don't follow any one organised religion.

Zonic · 26/01/2024 11:16

You can see how people in the community in the real world get ostracised and falsely accused by witch-hunt mentality just by reading this thread .

justasking111 · 26/01/2024 13:23

@Itwasafterallallaboutme

Okay

Circularargument · 26/01/2024 14:03

Zonic · 26/01/2024 11:16

You can see how people in the community in the real world get ostracised and falsely accused by witch-hunt mentality just by reading this thread .

Yup. But we'll be told to shut up as it's "just a bit of fun".
🙄

Deathbyathousandcats · 26/01/2024 16:03

Zonic · 26/01/2024 11:16

You can see how people in the community in the real world get ostracised and falsely accused by witch-hunt mentality just by reading this thread .

This makes no sense

WhatWhereWho · 26/01/2024 20:24

FKAT · 25/01/2024 13:47

I put Katie Price in the same bucket as Kardashians and Suella Braverman - yes they are not great people but their detractors are usually a million times worse.

As soon as some bloke starts slagging any of them off I put him on my shit list, regardless of whether he has a point. There are some men (F4J being a prime example) who take misogynistic delight in identifying, isolating and bullying 'bad women' because they can get others to join in.

And what do you think's happening on this thread?

rachelvbwho · 26/01/2024 20:31

Nightsgettingabitlighter · 23/01/2024 21:51

What is it about Ben Affleck?

For me it's just that he seems like a very angry man. I imagine him to be very negative, controlling and potentially aggressive.

Of course all this is just a baseless feeling with zero evidence... Just the vibe I get 🤣

WhatK8DidNext · 06/04/2024 01:04

Namechange357 · 23/01/2024 22:47

Andy Day, from Andy’s dinosaur adventures

Justin Fletcher / Mr Tumble

I know Andy IRL and he’s one of the nicest blokes ever!!

He would be genuinely devastated by this.

This thread is awful. These are real people with friends and family. @mumsnet this should be taken down.

HollyKnight · 06/04/2024 01:52

WhatK8DidNext · 06/04/2024 01:04

I know Andy IRL and he’s one of the nicest blokes ever!!

He would be genuinely devastated by this.

This thread is awful. These are real people with friends and family. @mumsnet this should be taken down.

No one has posted on this thread since January. You bumping it now will draw attention to it.

NoisySnail · 06/04/2024 01:58

Prince William

Geppili · 06/04/2024 02:44

Coogan, Walliams and West.

tillytown · 06/04/2024 05:08

Matthew Broderick

StoneTheCrone · 06/04/2024 13:41

Just coming here to say I love Chris Packham.

MaudGone · 06/04/2024 18:30

Geppili · 06/04/2024 02:44

Coogan, Walliams and West.

Which West?