But that’s exactly it @CatMadam She is being used. The fact that five men have moved on from her shows she’s just laying it all out for anyone who shows her a crumb of interest in her.
Casual sex can be a sign you don’t value yourself at all.
She’s using her body to try and be loved. To find love. Sometimes it works. Often it doesn’t. Five suggests it’s not working. And have there been others in between?
If what she wants is a long term committed partner which is what most people aspire to have, then sleeping with every single man you go on a date with could give you self esteem issues. Or underline the fact you have them already.
Casual sex when you feel confident in who you are, have strong values and good boundaries can be excellent.
My point is that the casual sex she’s having looks like low self esteem sex where she hopes someone will see her value because she can’t.
The fact she’s moved in someone very early is just more evidence of a poor sense of self, a poor level of judgment and poor sense of her own true needs and values.
She thinks having a relationship will make her feel good but it looks like her values and set up are all wrong: look at what she’s done compromising the safety of her kids. She needs help to set safe boundaries around men, sex and her kids.