..never understand the cryptic clues (probably because they're not aimed at me, but others who "are allowed to be in the know", or some inner circle)... and get the urge to post "If you're pregnant, either post and say who you are so EVERYONE can congratulate you .. or bloody well keep it to yourself!" (Or at least when other people are posting that they know.. obviously not if you're incogntio because you're distressed/unsure what you're going to do/nobody on here knows who you are... it's different then).
It's a wee be isolating, when so many people keep smugly saying ^I know who it is!" They may as well go the whole hog and post ner-ner-na-ner-ner and done with it! ) and when you (perhaps stupidly)DO actually give a toss about these cyber people you count as friends-of-sorts (probably in lieu of a real social life, but still...)