Dirty underpants

[MistralIV]

My husband apparently had diarrhoea at work today, and he has just informed me of this and was laughing at how funny it was that he’d done a bit in his pants before getting to the loo.
I then realised that he is still sitting there on the sofa with the same underpants on which he’s worn all day at work, then throughout dinner and been watching the telly in for a couple of hours.
When I told him that’s disgusting and he should go and change them immediately and wash, he was very defensive, and said he’d wiped it with toilet paper so it is ok and now dried. He got quite angry with me and wasn’t remotely embarrassed or apologetic. he doesn’t even seem to realise that this is horrible.

AIBU- I am disgusted and upset that he is defending this

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In that case it’s probably more foul to contemplate than actually unhygienic for others as presumably the work trousers prevented contact with the sofa. But I don’t know how he’d feel comfortable. And I’d still dispose of the underpants.

How the fuck was she supposed to know he would shit his pants before she married him? The OP doesn't say it is a regular thing. I know I didn't ask my husband before marrying him whether he was a pant shitter and what he would do if he shat himself at work.

Quite.

Amazing how often this topic or one very similar crops up on here isn't it?

Yup 🙄🥱

Smelly bum cracks manky panties and shitty boxers 🤔 ok then

Ewwwww!! Crusty skid marks!

That's pretty nasty behaviour, autistic or not.

@Calliopespa

No need to dispose of his shitty pants

Make sure he washes them himself

especially if he has to hand-wash them ,
Bonus star chart points 👉 for that,

This thread is a new low in autism bashing.

Thank you. In actual fact he’s one of the cleanest men I ever known and is tidy as well. This was very strange. But to be honest, I’ve never known him be in situation before, so I can’t say.

he is immature though and can make crude comments to me. Although he never do it in front of anyone else. I think it’s to do with knowledge of appropriate boundaries.

Eeew. Then have his hands about the place.

The star chart comment?!

… 🤔?

He shit his pants and it's her fault. Of course.

It really is.

I know several people with autism and none of them would be comfortable cutting about all day in shitty underpants.

Your husband is a grot OP, it's got absolutely fuck all to do with Autism.

What is it on MN with literally shitty men?

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This post is as metaphorically shitty as OP's DH is literally. Autism does not equal shitty pants or gross humour. Ffs

You do realize it is a spectrum?

Considering me, my 2 children and my brother all have actual diagnosis’ I do have a tiny inkling about it.

Is this the 3rd or 4th thread about dirty undies today.

I cannot imagine my DH thinking this was close to funny and I definitely cannot imagine posting about it if he did.

It's grim, just bloody grim🤢

@Honeychickpea

You do realize it is a spectrum?

Do you know what that means though? Your reply to someone saying you are either autistic or not indicates you think a spectrum goes from side to side on how autistic a person is.

Tell me you know nothing about autism without telling me you know nothing about autism.