I had a job 2.5 years ago where I met 2 “best friends” male and female. They’re late 20s. I’m younger. We no longer work together. Aibu to cut them off?
The female would constantly cancel on plans and dump us for better friends. It all seemed quite forced and no substance eg lots of fake “i love you”s
The male constantly overdoes it - significant drinks, cigarettes/cannabis, risky tinder dates, placing himself in dangerous situations. EG starting fights with random men at the work Christmas party. He’s scrawny, so he was lucky they didn’t react cause they could have easily overpowered him. the female found it hysterically funny then randomly ran off in tears…
I was left trying to calm both of them down and get them home safe. They are degree educated, public sector professionals on £30k+! They acted like nothing happened afterwards…
recently the female got married so there’s been several group chats on the go with her friends who imo are just as bad if not worse. I said I’d go to the wedding as I stupidly rsvp’d - that’s done now and I have since stopped messaging or socialising with them. They continue to add me to group chats and inviting me out and acting put off when I decline eg said i am being off with them. Aibu?