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To think Center Parcs really isn’t middle class

381 replies

GodAgainstAll · 30/12/2023 16:04

Just spent a few days there for the first time. It’s expensive and the people there seem to be v affluent in terms of clothes/cars, but middle class? I was surprised.

OP posts:
zaazaazoo · 30/12/2023 18:15

Ostu · 30/12/2023 16:49

It's low-brow. But then the middle class almost always is. Parochial, unimaginative and fearful. Center Parcs is perfect for them.

So if the middle class is low brow, who is high brow?

5128gap · 30/12/2023 18:16

I've always thought of CP as a wet, miserable, kagooly type place where people from urban areas can go for the novelty of the fake nature experience. I'd have thought anyone invested in their MC status would either shun it for its artifice, preferring their experiences to be 'authentic' or already be living in rural areas and not see the point. But I'm WC so the workings of the MC mind will forever be a mystery to me.

Just1MoreMinute · 30/12/2023 18:18

A true upper middle class would not spend a penny on ‘owl training’, even if it were free. Can’t think of anything more naff!

Lemonfoxtrot · 30/12/2023 18:19

NearlyMonday · 30/12/2023 18:05

DH is self employed in the building industry and makes very good money. And rather than being a beauty therapist, I have a professional-ish job. I don’t drive a Range Rover and my dream holiday is probably the Amalfi Coast.

I wear Boden and definitely don’t swear. I do lots of Pilates and am a season ticket holder at our local football club.

its amazing how people have misconceptions about builders and their wives.

Don’t get me wrong! I don’t actually think this about people in the building industry…I was sending up the stereotype. I have one friend who’s a senior director at a large company and her DH is a plumber. Class distinctions are far more blurred and fluid now ( which is probably why there’s so much status anxiety)

I also suspect that some traditionally middle class people don’t like couscous.

Of course it’s more complicated than the class stereotype…which is why this thread exists.

OhmygodDont · 30/12/2023 18:19

Just1MoreMinute · 30/12/2023 18:18

A true upper middle class would not spend a penny on ‘owl training’, even if it were free. Can’t think of anything more naff!

How does a toddler train an owl anyway.

surely nature walks and such are the order of the day.

Usernamen · 30/12/2023 18:22

Just1MoreMinute · 30/12/2023 18:15

No. In fact, it’s the new money who are filling up private schools these days. Most of the kids going to private school these days are ‘first generation’ in private school.

Wealth doesn’t define class; how you spend it defines class.

This could not be further from the truth - see the recent thread on what parents in your kids’ private school do for a living. Almost all the responses were traditional middle class professions - lawyers, doctors, accountants, dentists, vets, barristers etc. with the odd celebrity. Private schools are not majority new money, what a far fetched claim.

Once again, this is just the declining middle classes denigrating something they have become priced out of. Sour grapes, basically.

Elfon · 30/12/2023 18:24

I went to CP as an 11 year old in 1988 when it first opened and it was SO middle class back then it blew my mind. My family and the area I grew up were very working class I’d never seen anything like it.

One family insisted on buying us drinks all week when my parents told them how much spending money they had budgeted (£30 a day if anyone’s interested. We took all our own food).

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 30/12/2023 18:24

SomeCatFromJapan · 30/12/2023 16:10

A thread about Center Parcs not being quite middle class enough seems peak MN.

😂😂😂 spot on!

baileybrosbuildingandloan · 30/12/2023 18:26

@penjil can you clarify how our whole country revolves around class please?

Calliopespa · 30/12/2023 18:27

Begsthequestion · 30/12/2023 18:06

😧 surely not a middle class one! They'd take after their parents, who often have unusually tight sphincters, which helps hold those sticks in place😂

Quite. “You can take the girl out of Croydon, but you’ll never really tighten her sphincter.”

blueshoes · 30/12/2023 18:27

This thread is negative advertising for CP. The differentiator may be taste rather than class.

MissFancyDay · 30/12/2023 18:29

Such snobbery on this thread.

@Poblano you could be us!! we are going next week, it cost £430 for four nights in a three bedroom villa, so not particularly expensive. We shall walk about, do some swimming and just spend time with our young adult DC.

I expect we will swim at off peak times and avoid the crowds. People are right, it's easy (and close) just what we need after a stressful year.

Begsthequestion · 30/12/2023 18:29

This is probably how the French aristocracy felt when all those vulgar, jumped up merchants and traders started demanding access to the finer things in life to go with their newly acquired wealth!

And look how that ended...

Watch out OP, the plebs are at the (Center Parks) gates!

PinkyBlueMe · 30/12/2023 18:32

Muthaofcats · 30/12/2023 16:52

I think I know what OP was getting at - I was surprised at how rough it was given the cost. We had a nice time but it felt pretty grim. The low quality chain restaurants and general rude/abrasive vibe of the other people there etc - parents smoking at outdoor dining areas etc. The spa was more expensive than London prices and abysmal and so crowded it was impossible to relax or even find somewhere to sit.

I couldn’t quite work out who CP was trying to appeal to as I realised for the same money we could go somewhere much much nicer - so whilst outdoorsy activities is right up our street, and we are prepared to pay for it done well, I don’t think we’d go back.

I agree with much of this. I think CP has lost its target market. I'm a big fan but it's changed. We still like it but if you've been going for years there's no denying it's changed.
We are just back and there was a high number of guests vaping and a few smokers. Far more than usual. I know this is contentious but my view is vaping is chavvie. Saw one Dad pushing a buggy, vaping, with a 3 or 4 year old, on the phone repeatedly saying the Ct word.
A 4/5 year old playing adventure golf shrieking F
k each time he played a bad shot.
Male member of staff in spa walking through relaxation areas shouting his mouth off into walkie talkie about how he couldn't wait to go home. Yes, first world problem.
A younger teen started on DS15 on the rapids calling him names to provoke him. I know it was unprovoked as I was there though at the time the boy didn't realise I was with DS15. Seriously, who goes to CP to start a fight? My DS won't react and wasn't fazed (he's a black belt and has multiple fighting medals) but another person could have been upset rather than amused.
We first went to CP 14 years ago. The above just weren't an issue then as CP marketed itself as wholesome and at one with nature. Now it's touted as expensive and middle class, and there's even been a tv show about this, so you get people there who are mainly concerned with fitting the "middle class tag" by posting they're at CP.
All this said, we will still go and do our own thing as we love the visits from deer, squirrels, ducks etc to the accommodation, the car free rules, and the activities. Still mostly a good vibe I think but definitely changing.

Calliopespa · 30/12/2023 18:32

Poblano · 30/12/2023 18:07

It's fine @Calliopespa. As it happens we're going next week - the older DC are at university now but have many happy memories of CP from when they were younger and still enjoy a break there while they're home for Christmas.

No idea what class we are, have no plans to survey our neighbours on what class they are either. Just hoping for some nice family time, an afternoon in the Spa with DD and a sizzling fajita stack at Huck's 😁

Enjoy!

Just1MoreMinute · 30/12/2023 18:33

I know barristers doctors solicitors etc who are first generation university. The brilliance of our education system is that actually it has enabled working classes to go to university where previously they wouldn’t.

being first-generation university doesn’t make you middle class.

class is built up over several generations, it doesn’t happen overnight.

kitsuneghost · 30/12/2023 18:36

zaazaazoo · 30/12/2023 18:15

So if the middle class is low brow, who is high brow?

Academia class. Well educated, lots of degrees but no job or low paid academic style jobs.

MadamVastra · 30/12/2023 18:37

So who is allowed to go to cp then?

which job titles and annual income?

asking for a friend

dingledells · 30/12/2023 18:37

@Begsthequestion 🤣

OhmygodDont · 30/12/2023 18:38

MadamVastra · 30/12/2023 18:37

So who is allowed to go to cp then?

which job titles and annual income?

asking for a friend

I mean is it in the suns £9.50 holidays yet 🫣

ichundich · 30/12/2023 18:39

We've not had a class thread for a week at least. Who cares anyway. It's an overpriced Butlins. I feel a bit sad for people who can't organise their own holiday (activities), but to each their own.

Forgotmylogindetails · 30/12/2023 18:39

Haha my brother and his family are there it was probably them lowering the tone for all you middle class people 🤦‍♀️

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 30/12/2023 18:40

I think it’s fair to say that the MN MC are the sort who tut about English Center Parcs and tell anyone who’ll listen that the European sites are soooo much better.

Calliopespa · 30/12/2023 18:41

Forgotmylogindetails · 30/12/2023 18:39

Haha my brother and his family are there it was probably them lowering the tone for all you middle class people 🤦‍♀️

I hope he doesn’t tell you one of them pooed in the pool! Then you’ll know! 😄

NearlyMonday · 30/12/2023 18:41

StillWantingADog · 30/12/2023 17:35

I find it quite an odd mix. Overwhelmingly white was the most obvious observation- would welcome any ideas as to why that would be.

you’d have to be affluent to be happy to pay school hols prices tbh. We only went before the kids went to school, during term time, in winter. Cheap as chips.

Correct me if I’m wrong but 89% of the UK population is white, so as we’re an overwhelmingly white country I would expect the CP guests to reflect that?

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