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What are ‘all the trimmings’?

526 replies

HurricaneZeldaAndToto · 29/12/2023 16:56

After a slightly disappointing Christmas dinner at a relative’s house, I wondered if my idea of ‘all the trimmings’ was massively out of whack with the rest of the world?

If you did turkey dinner ‘with all the trimmings’ what did you serve?

AIBU to suspect this means very different things to different people?

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CandyLeBonBon · 29/12/2023 17:20

I LOVE baked beans. Like seriously love them. But I couldn't hack them on a roast dinner!

Cottagecheeseisnotcheese · 29/12/2023 17:21

apart from turkey we do Roast potatoes, stuffing, pigs in blankets, roast parsnips, brussel sprouts, cranberry sauce and braised red cabbage and either gravy or bread sauce

I don't do any other type of potatoes or yorkshires or cauliflower cheese, I might do carrots instead of red cabbage but my family prefer red cabbage, I am only cooking for 4 with enough for boxing day so don't do any other meat either

HurricaneZeldaAndToto · 29/12/2023 17:22

BAKED BEANS?!?

I need more wine for this!!!

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Daffyyellow · 29/12/2023 17:23

All the trimmings for Christmas is -
Turkey, stuffed with sage and onion and sausagemeat.
Roast potatoes, parsnips, sweet potatoes and papers.
Sprouts, cauliflower, broccoli, mange toutes, carrots and peas.
Pigs in blankets.
And lots of gravy.

If we have other people (that is no one in our house likes - bread sauce and cranberry sauce).

minou123 · 29/12/2023 17:23

EarringsandLipstick · 29/12/2023 17:16

Off-topic: I hate the phrase 'all the trimmings'. It's an English expression that occasionally creeps in here (Ireland). 😜

The other oddity is 'pigs in blankets'. I get what they are but have never seen them at a dinner table in my life.

Have you never ate pigs in blankets?

I'm am shooketh. 😱😋

Can you buy then in Ireland? If so, treat yourself for NYE. You'll not regret it.

CorvusPurpureus · 29/12/2023 17:23

I would say definitely NOT cauli cheese (I love it, but too much gravy & other sauces going on).

If I did mash it'd be celeriac or swede or something by my choice, but my vegan dd2 adores mashed potato so I add it to the festivities - & tbh everyone ends up eating it.

Spinet · 29/12/2023 17:24

I think people who are fussy about what all the trimmings are probably don't cook the dinner. Though I confess I would be sad if no roast parsnips.

doggiedoodah · 29/12/2023 17:24

We had a banquet,courtesy of my son’s amazing cooking catering for vegetarian diet as well
Turkey
Nut roast
Roast Potatoes
2types of stuffing
Sprouts with bacon
Parsnips
Carrots
Broccolli and Cauliflower cheese
Leeks
Bread sauce
2 types of gravy
Swede with black pepper/ butter
Cranberry sauce we forgot about it until after eating

averylongtimeago · 29/12/2023 17:25

Roast turkey, roast pork, roast spuds, parsnip and carrots. Sprouts with bacon. Spiced red cabbage, cauliflower cheese/cheesy leeks, peas and carrots . Chestnut stuffing plus another fancy stuffing, cranberry, apple and bread sauce. Posh gravy (not granules) Yorkshire puds.

Sometimes mash but I don't like it so only if the mash lovers are present.

RunningAndSinging · 29/12/2023 17:26

I love bread sauce as do my parents and I make it every year but DH, the in-laws and DC never have any. It would be a bit weird if you weren’t used to it. I never have any of DH’s home made, cranberry sauce either so we are even I guess.

my trimmings:
bread sauce
cranberry sauce from a jar!
roast potatoes
gravy made from the turkey giblets
pigs in blankets
brussel sprouts (ideally friend with bacon and chestnuts)
Chestnut and apricot stuffing
roast parsnips
plain carrots
red cabbage

there is not really room on the plate nor in my stomach but lots of yummy leftovers to enjoy for days.

MissingMoominMamma · 29/12/2023 17:26

In our house:

Stuffing - two types
Pigs in blankets
Carrot and swede mash
Roast potatoes
Mashed Potatoes
Cauliflower cheese
Sprouts
Cranberry Sauce

luckylavender · 29/12/2023 17:26

I wouldn't say mash belonged in a Christmas dinner and I'm not a fan of bread sauce. But 2 x pots, stuffing, cranberry sauce, gravy, pigs, yorkshires, roast parsnips, & 3 x veg.

Fizbosshoes · 29/12/2023 17:26

I'd want a Christmas dinner to include
Turkey
Stuffing
Pigs in Blankets
Roast potatoes
Carrots
Parsnips
Sprouts
Bread sauce
Gravy
(And possibly another vegetable)

I couldn't contemplate 2 types of potatoes, Yorkshire puds or cauliflower cheese .....because then I'd be too full for the multiple deserts and chocolate later! 😃

averylongtimeago · 29/12/2023 17:26

And pigs in blankets of course

HurricaneZeldaAndToto · 29/12/2023 17:27

@EarringsandLipstick

I love it as I’ve only hear it used at Xmas and it is such an odd term.

I’m not British born, so sometimes fall foul at all the odd customs (despite having been here most of my life).

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TheWillowTrees · 29/12/2023 17:27

Off-topic: I hate the phrase 'all the trimmings'. It's an English expression that occasionally creeps in here

I hate it too (am English). Always seems like something you'd see on a shit restaurant menu (see also unnecessary adjectives on the menu, like "tasty").

luckylavender · 29/12/2023 17:28

HotelNotPortofino · 29/12/2023 17:06

More than one type of potato?
Who has more than roast potatoes?
Why?

Boiled pots

Justyouwaitandseeagain · 29/12/2023 17:28

We have: turkey, pigs in blankets, roast potatoes, roast parsnips, carrot and swede mash, sprouts, red cabbage, cauliflower cheese, peas, bread sauce and turkey gravy!

ShouldIbeLeftWithLess · 29/12/2023 17:28

To add to the potato options, dauphinoise is a lovely addition!

NeedToChangeName · 29/12/2023 17:29

DoesMaryNotDrive · 29/12/2023 17:05

I can only do roast potatoes, parsnips, carrots, brussels sprouts and gravy and store bought cranberry sauce.

Just the thought of any other extras exhausts me, even though I love cauliflower cheese.

@DoesMaryNotDrive a bag of frozen cauliflower cheese is surprisingly good. You can cook as many / few florets as you want

Flowersandskulls · 29/12/2023 17:29

Baked Beans. He even persuaded my mum to add them to her Christmas table. My dear mum who made pretty much everything from scratch, added beans for her SIL. Bless her.

Celeriacisquitenice · 29/12/2023 17:30

I'm in Ireland where a glazed ham is also served as well as Turkey on Christmas Day.
So
Turkey
Ham
Stuffing (2 or 3 types including stuffing balls)
Gravy
Bread sauce or cranberry sauce or both (depending on attendees)
Roast potatoes
Croquettes
Red cabbage
Sprouts
Roast carrots and parsnips in honey
Cauliflower cheese
Minted peas (for colour!)
Pigs in blankets...not really necessary because of aforementioned ham but sure it's Christmas

Tacotortoise · 29/12/2023 17:32

Xmas dinner trimmings in this house are: pigs in blankets, stuffing balls, roast potatoes, roast parsnips, red cabbage, brussel sprouts in some form, carrots. Maybe some other veg (this year braised celery) but those are the core.

Edited because I forgot the gravy, bread sauce and cranberry jelly 😲

EBearhug · 29/12/2023 17:32

Turkey

Veg, which should probably be parsnips, brussel sprouts, carrot, mashed swede.
I do know a lot of people are fond of red cabbage, but it's usually a bit sweet for me by the time it's been messed about with, and almost no one ever serves plain red cabbage. Also not fond of cauliflower cheese, though plain cauliflower is fine. Peas, cabbage, broccoli, green beans also all acceptable. Vegetables are essentially a vehicle for soaking up gravy, and a variety should not all be root vegetables or all be brassica or all be legumes, though if seasonal, roots and legumes will predominate.

Roast spuds. (Essential for any roast. You can’t do too many roast spuds.)
My mother always served mashed potatoes as well, though that seems unnecessary to me (though I sm generally a fan.)

Gravy. (Essential for any roast.)

Bread sauce (we had none.)
Cranberry sauce (we had none.)
Pigs in blankets (we had none.)
At least one type of stuffing. We had one with dried apricot, parsley and breadcrumbs, which was okay, but a good sage & onion sausage meat stuffing is traditional. Mum always did a chestnut based one as well, that may have involved giblets in some way, but I'm unsure of the details. (The giblets ultimately ended up being fed to the cat, but I think they made stock first.)

I was a bit disappointed by our Christmas Dinner, because while it was excellent, it did not include all the trimmings. Obviously I have not said so out loud. But I may have to rectify it once I'm back home, because I really like a proper Christmas dinner.

HideousKinky · 29/12/2023 17:32

EarringsandLipstick I don't like this phrase either - it always makes my heart sink