DH was very drunk Xmas day. Fell asleep in the kitchen. I went to put his phone on charge and saw a message from telegram. I thought it odd because I didn't know he used telegram. Asked him about it in the morning and he said it was his friend asking if he had plans. I thought that really odd...at 10pm on Xmas day. So then I said that doesn't feel right, can I see? Yes of course you can but I need the toilet first. He came back and handed me his phone. All telegram exchanges had been deleted.
I suspect I'm being lied to. I'll never know now and I'm not sure I can live like that. What do you think?