To buy my lovely single cousin a trip to meet other christian singles?

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DragonMama3 · 24/12/2023 19:27

Would you be offended if you were my cousin?

She's lovely. I think she might meet someone nice.

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FestiveNearly · 28/12/2023 21:41

ireallycantthinkofaname · 24/12/2023 20:21

You don't have to ask her explicitly. Just something along the lines of, "I saw this and was wondering what you thought about it? If I was single I would."
Just buying is unreasonable and potentially putting her in a really horrible position.

Agree with this.

It’s not an awful idea, @DragonMama3 . I assume she’s looking for a christian so it’s better for her to go to a place where she’s likely to find one.
You just need to go about it sensitively

CuteCillian · 28/12/2023 21:43

I really recommend your cousin giving this a try.
https://www.be-salt.com/
I have attended two weddings so far!

mewkins · 28/12/2023 22:03

Maybe talk to her about it. Ask her if she'd like to go and maybe suggest that it may be nice to go with a single friend? She can just say no if she's not interested.

MerryBlueberry · 28/12/2023 22:07

Whataretheodds · 24/12/2023 19:48

Then don't buy it. You'd be buying a present that says "please do something you're not convinced you want to do/please change your behaviour"

That's not what Christmas and birthday gifts are for. Save the conversation for another time.

By all means offer to buy her a trip somewhere she's said she'd like to go. Or with a group she's said she'd like to try. Otherwise no.

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DragonMama3 · 28/12/2023 22:54

CuteCillian · 28/12/2023 21:43

I really recommend your cousin giving this a try.
https://www.be-salt.com/
I have attended two weddings so far!

I will!

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