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To think the British way of saying I couldn’t care less vs the American way of saying I could care less makes much more sense?

56 replies

Eaglemom · 21/12/2023 00:01

the title explains my gripe! When I hear it in films it gets my goat

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ChihuahuaMummy · 21/12/2023 00:03

Oh this bugs me too! When you say 'I couldn't care less', it's implying that it is not possible to care less than you already do, which is the lowest possible amount. The American version of 'I could care less' is actually saying that you could actually care even less about things so it's not at the lowest level. I don't believe the American version is used correctly to what it is meant to imply.

I hope that made sense, it's late 😂

Reugny · 21/12/2023 00:04

US films are mainly aimed at US audiences so I wouldn't get wound up about it.

I have to deal with various types of English at work. It's only annoying when you have to write shared documents as some people will default to US English.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 21/12/2023 00:04

Absolutely. If you could care less, you obviously care.

And I couldn't care less is not just British. I'm Irish and we use it too. I don't know about other dialects of English though. Any Australians, new Zealanders, Canadians etc want to comment?

Eaglemom · 21/12/2023 00:09

Ha yes thank you above posters, I go through this thought process whenever it pops up

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KissTheRains · 21/12/2023 00:11

I never say that phrase, ever.

I say versions of it which are much more profane but much clearer...

Couldn't give a shit
Couldn't give a fuck
Couldn't give a rodents rectum

So on and so on.

Eaglemom · 21/12/2023 00:17

I wonder if it applies to all the phrases.
would Americans say I could give a shit? Or I could give a rodents rectum?

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Grimmz · 21/12/2023 00:25

It's basically a mishearing / bastardisation of an expression that took on a life of its own despite the fact that it makes no sense.

BirthdayPartyTraditions · 21/12/2023 00:25

@KissTheRains "Couldn't give a rodents rectum" ?? 🤣🤣🤣 I'm not English and I've definitely not heard this one.

SpecialCharacters · 21/12/2023 00:32

Agree, and I usually find complaints about Americanization of the English language a bit tedious. It just doesn’t make sense!

Its like ‘you’ve got another thing coming’ it’s been misheard or misused enough that it’s now stuck.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:38

Where exactly are you hearing this?

user701 · 21/12/2023 00:42

Yes it’s incredibly annoying and makes no sense at all. It really grates on me. If you could care less it means you care - the exact opposite of what the phrase is meant to convey.

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:42

Deleting due to silly reply button mistake!

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:42

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:38

Where exactly are you hearing this?

Americans, American TV and movies and podcasts etc

Ktime · 21/12/2023 00:45

I don’t think it’s a big deal, tye sentiment is obvious in both statements.

You could even argue Americans are saying they could care less because they can care less.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:46

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:42

Americans, American TV and movies and podcasts etc

Ok… TV and podcasts are totally the bastion of truth and realism 😂

Sorry all …carry on with th the American bashing. I won’t interrupt again.

MissConductUS · 21/12/2023 00:46

sandberry · 21/12/2023 00:21

Even this American song thinks ‘I could care less is wrong’. I don’t think it’s a US thing.

It’s not an American thing. If an American says “I could care less” they’ve simply misspoken. 99.9% of the time it’s phrased in the negative here.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:48

You all know that Weird Al is a parody singer, right?

Ktime · 21/12/2023 00:49

I remember this one poster who absolutely wouldn’t understand why her and her husband could much more easily afford their rent and bills on their combined salaries than their single friend who earned the same as her. No kids or anything, just an absolute refusal to acknowledge that working couples share costs.

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:49

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:46

Ok… TV and podcasts are totally the bastion of truth and realism 😂

Sorry all …carry on with th the American bashing. I won’t interrupt again.

Americans say it, I lived there for years. I don’t have much of an opinion on it either way, but it’s a commonplace phrase there. Hardly a conspiracy theory 🙂

hoobanoobie · 21/12/2023 00:50

Yep! What also grates on me is "calvary" instead of "cavalry". How is this also so often mistaken? Let's all just talk backwards because people will assume what we've said is correct. Laziness and stupidity have allowed things like this to spread and become accepted 🤬

Trenda · 21/12/2023 00:50

I heard an American actor explain that it's only half of the sentence. It is understood by most as,
I could care less ....but i cant be bothered.

saltinesandcoffeecups · 21/12/2023 00:51

Ktime · 21/12/2023 00:49

I remember this one poster who absolutely wouldn’t understand why her and her husband could much more easily afford their rent and bills on their combined salaries than their single friend who earned the same as her. No kids or anything, just an absolute refusal to acknowledge that working couples share costs.

Wrong thread?

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:52

MissConductUS · 21/12/2023 00:46

It’s not an American thing. If an American says “I could care less” they’ve simply misspoken. 99.9% of the time it’s phrased in the negative here.

Could it be regional? I lived in Oregon and it’s a commonplace phrase there.

MissConductUS · 21/12/2023 00:53

FantaBanane · 21/12/2023 00:52

Could it be regional? I lived in Oregon and it’s a commonplace phrase there.

Perhaps. I’m a New Yorker and almost never hear it here.

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