Light a penny candle

[Amibeingadick]

I’ve had an epiphany about how I’m raising my children. I’m worried I’m more violet than Eileen. How can I strike a good balance between the mother of pearl fish knives and eating chips out of paper?

somewhat of a niche post OP! #bemoreeileen

I imagine most folk will, like me, wonder what on earth you're on about

Less drugs for you

One of my favourite books!

ugh violet was the worst!

I might reread this so I can comment! I loved it but have forgotten the detail

I want to be Aisling. not Elizabeth.

I read that decades ago, so I can’t remember the details. I do remember that I loved it.

This is such a good analogy! I think I'm somewhere in the middle.

think i’m due a reread

I love this book! Elizabeth was such a drip though. Team Aisling all the way. Also Team Eileen.

Argh! Thought you were talking about a film/drama with Timothy Spall from many years ago, I really want to rewatch, but it appears to have vanished completely.
It was beautiful.
Right off to Google the book.

Eileen is the best for sure but I do worry sometimes when I’m making my kids do things properly there’s a bit less joy and I’m getting it wrong

This is what happens when you leave caviar in the sun