work rude about my personal life

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in the long run it doesn’t matter, i’m leaving once i’m on mat leave and not going back, but that’s a few months away yet. i’m struggling to feel kindly to boss at the minute because they have recently made pretty unfair comments that i shouldn’t have gotten pregnant and also that my husband is useless and i should leave him (because i’ve had to turn down cover a few times despite telling them dh works mon-fri 9-5 so not to bother offering weekday shifts because i have no childcare full stop). i’m just sick of it. it’s a minimum wage job but comments on personal life from a boss just surely isn’t normal?

No it's not normal- ignore move on.
Sounds like your boss is more concerned about covering shifts.
All that matters is that you are happy in your relationship and content your DH is loving, supportive and pulls his weight.
Unless your boss has genuine safeguarding concerns they shouldn't comment about your relationship.

Completely inappropriate. No excuse for that. Check in with Pregnant Then Screwed helpline if you want to know your rights?

Rude and unnecessary about your husband, and a bit discriminatory about your pregnancy. No, it isn't normal or professional. You could report to higher up or HR if you wanted to but as you're leaving (I assume) quite soon and not going back then might not be worth the bother