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Fluffy sock problem

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Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 13:06

I fell out with my neighbour some time ago but we've made up now.

She has given me an Xmas card but I am going to give her one back as well as a pair of socks.

So... Green with one large reindeer with large antlers?

Or red ones with lots of small antlers?

Aibu green pair
Ainbu red ones

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Lulalola · 12/12/2023 14:20

I'm more impressed you have neighbours you actually speak to and give presents to. That must be a mumsnet first

Usernameundiscovered · 12/12/2023 14:21

I really think you should tattle on her and tell us why you fell out

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 14:31

Oh it was because she's incredibly loud and kept on coming round 😆

But then she had a family death so I dropped her round some flowers and we made up.

She really is so loud that yesterday I heard her screaming about something she needed from the shop and I got it as I was going anyway.

I've decided on green socks as the reindeer looks friendlier 🙂

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Usernameundiscovered · 12/12/2023 14:34

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 14:31

Oh it was because she's incredibly loud and kept on coming round 😆

But then she had a family death so I dropped her round some flowers and we made up.

She really is so loud that yesterday I heard her screaming about something she needed from the shop and I got it as I was going anyway.

I've decided on green socks as the reindeer looks friendlier 🙂

I think you should find some festive tiger socks personally.

Princessfluffy · 12/12/2023 15:06

This is very cute
Give her one of each and keep the others for yourself then you can be matching besties?

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 15:15

Princessfluffy · 12/12/2023 15:06

This is very cute
Give her one of each and keep the others for yourself then you can be matching besties?

🤣 I think that would look a little odd!

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Crumblecakes · 12/12/2023 15:32

If she is loud you should call the police now! Or get your ducks in a row and look to move

DragonScreeches · 12/12/2023 16:12

Call 101 and ask them to decide?

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 16:31

🤣🤣🤣🤣 no she's a bit noisy and intrusive. We have made up so don't want any further problems. I have decided on green reindeer socks. The red ones looked like a bit of a computer game anyway so I'll keep those. I always keep in a few boxes of chocs and things like socks for small gifts.

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GalileoHumpkins · 12/12/2023 16:47

I hope you don't hear her screaming about the crappy gift you gave her for Christmas.

tachycardigan · 12/12/2023 16:52

She really is so loud that yesterday I heard her screaming about something she needed from the shop and I got it as I was going anyway.

Who was she screaming to?

Don’t buy her stuff when she screams, it will make her just scream for more.

Nchanged89 · 12/12/2023 17:01

Mmm how old is she, screaming out of character like that could be a sign of early onset dementia, just be kind to her.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 12/12/2023 17:06

I think you should be very careful or she will be dropping round again.
Are you giving her some hot choc and marshmallows too?

Kangarude · 12/12/2023 17:09

GalileoHumpkins · 12/12/2023 16:47

I hope you don't hear her screaming about the crappy gift you gave her for Christmas.

😂

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 18:07

GalileoHumpkins · 12/12/2023 16:47

I hope you don't hear her screaming about the crappy gift you gave her for Christmas.

Oh no don't say that! We'll hear by Sunday anyway.

BLOODY FUCKING SOCKS

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Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 18:34

Iwantmyoldnameback · 12/12/2023 17:06

I think you should be very careful or she will be dropping round again.
Are you giving her some hot choc and marshmallows too?

I haven't so far! When she had a close relative death I hesitated and thought obout it then decided to leave some flowers and a note outside her door.

She really is so noisy that I could overhear her screaming "it's from the bitch" but just rolled my eyes a little.

I do empathise with a family death and we keep in contact by email now. May have to buy some earplugs however

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Nchanged89 · 12/12/2023 19:28

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 18:34

I haven't so far! When she had a close relative death I hesitated and thought obout it then decided to leave some flowers and a note outside her door.

She really is so noisy that I could overhear her screaming "it's from the bitch" but just rolled my eyes a little.

I do empathise with a family death and we keep in contact by email now. May have to buy some earplugs however

Have you considered going NC?

Ibizabar · 12/12/2023 19:30

My advice is to stick to Tattle.

CatOnTheLap · 12/12/2023 19:30

Iwantmyoldnameback · 12/12/2023 17:06

I think you should be very careful or she will be dropping round again.
Are you giving her some hot choc and marshmallows too?

You forgot the matching Xmas pyjamas.

GalileoHumpkins · 12/12/2023 19:31

Does the gift card read
To : my lovely neighbour.
From : the bitch ?

Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 19:57

Hahaha! Actually I did think later on this week I should write Love, the Bitch.

She does make me laugh as well as being insanely noisy. She is not a nasty person just her noise function is not average. I'd rather get on with her so we both have to adjust

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Twittoowoo · 12/12/2023 19:58

GalileoHumpkins · 12/12/2023 19:31

Does the gift card read
To : my lovely neighbour.
From : the bitch ?

Yes!

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Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 12/12/2023 20:11

Have you ever heard her screaming about sock preferences? That would help

CatOnTheLap · 12/12/2023 21:19

What if the neighbour has non-standard size feet? Would receiving socks make her feel that it was a deliberate attempt to highlight her different dimensions?

Twittoowoo · 13/12/2023 02:39

CatOnTheLap · 12/12/2023 21:19

What if the neighbour has non-standard size feet? Would receiving socks make her feel that it was a deliberate attempt to highlight her different dimensions?

Lord, hope not! I just buy bumper packs of socks, soaps and chocs as small Xmas pressies.

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