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Pronouncing theatre...

153 replies

Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 18:48

Ok ok, I realise this has probably been debated many times before but -

AIBU to massively cringe when I hear people say "thee-et-er" instead of "theer-ta"?

Live in the south east and it just seems ridiculous that people who otherwise speak in a normal south eastern accent say it like that. To me, it sounds like a hyacinth bucket moment! My boss was telling me about her upcoming trip and I couldn't focus at all beyond the cringe!

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StBrides · 11/12/2023 18:51

Totally agree, winds me right up

stravagante · 11/12/2023 18:52

It is a word with three syllables though...

beautifullittletree · 11/12/2023 18:53

AIBU to massively cringe when I hear people say "thee-et-er" instead of "theer-ta"?

Theer ta Confused

YABU

Usernamesarenoteasy · 11/12/2023 18:54

Is it not more like 'thee uh ter'
I've never heard anyone pronounce it remotely like theerta

ThanksMateThanksMate · 11/12/2023 18:55

On Friday there I saw 'Christine' from Two Doors Down perform in the panto at The King's 'THEERTUR'

LucyInTheParkWithDragons · 11/12/2023 18:55

I know what you mean - ‘thee ETT a’ with a big flourish on the middle syllable. Normally said by (irritating) thesps, IME.

FatFilledTrottyPuss · 11/12/2023 18:58

My mum pronounces it thee etta, it’s really weird the way she says it, I’ve never heard anyone pronounce it the way my mum does.

GoodOldEmmaNess · 11/12/2023 18:58

Don't get why its annoying. It isn't a poncy, showy pronunciation. It doesn't even have any particular class connotation. It's just how some people say it. Including meGrin

Beeto · 11/12/2023 18:59

I’m therr-ta unless I’m alone in the house with my dogs being dramatic listening to and dancing and reenacting musicals then I’m at the thee ETT a darling!

Possimpible · 11/12/2023 19:00

ThanksMateThanksMate · 11/12/2023 18:55

On Friday there I saw 'Christine' from Two Doors Down perform in the panto at The King's 'THEERTUR'

Lol 😂

Ahm dead classy, so ahmur, so it's 'thee-tur' for me.

'theer-ta'? 😐

greencheetah · 11/12/2023 19:00

The way you pronounce it isn’t correct though is it? I don’t think I have ever heard it pronounced Theer-ta. There isn’t an R before the second T.

I would pronounce it thee-ya-tah. The R is silent usually isn’t it? Also SE.

Rollingdownland · 11/12/2023 19:01

Totally agree. Fi Glover pronounces it 'thee AT er' and it kills me

1990thatsme · 11/12/2023 19:04

greencheetah · 11/12/2023 19:00

The way you pronounce it isn’t correct though is it? I don’t think I have ever heard it pronounced Theer-ta. There isn’t an R before the second T.

I would pronounce it thee-ya-tah. The R is silent usually isn’t it? Also SE.

Exactly! I am in Brighton. Have never heard anyone add an r saying it your way OP.

RecycleThie · 11/12/2023 19:06

I’m guessing OP has a non-rhotic accent and doesn’t actually say the R- she’s just added it to demonstrate the vowel sound.

Lisapillar · 11/12/2023 19:10

Also from the south east and never heard anyone call it theerta! And I’m from Crawley where we have a weird Sussex/London hybrid accent. I don’t live there now though.

Aphroditee · 11/12/2023 19:12

Well, you’d double cringe hearing me pronounce it.

I’m from Yorkshire and say “thee-uh-er". The “uh” being a glottle stop.

Butchyrestingface · 11/12/2023 19:12

I am Scottish so it's a THEE-YAY-TUR(D) from me, Brucie.

catchmewhenifall · 11/12/2023 19:13

Theer-a-tuh. Same as queer-a-tuh. But the middle A is very subtle! And no rhotic R sound.

I know someone who says theeETTah and it's awful. They also says serviette....

Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 19:15

RecycleThie · 11/12/2023 19:06

I’m guessing OP has a non-rhotic accent and doesn’t actually say the R- she’s just added it to demonstrate the vowel sound.

Exactly. Maybe "theer-ta" wasn't easy for some to see what I meant.

"Th-ear-tah" is perhaps more what I meant and how I pronounce it (and how it should be pronounced imo!)

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AllProperTeaIsTheft · 11/12/2023 19:15

I’m guessing OP has a non-rhotic accent and doesn’t actually say the R- she’s just added it to demonstrate the vowel sound.

Yup. I just came on to ask if those of you saying 'Huh? There's no 'r' before the second 't' in theatre are maybe Scottish, Irish or American!

The OP presumably means the 'theer' bit to rhyme with 'here' (which does not have an actual 'r' sound in it in most English people's accents).

That's how I say it too, OP. Dh and his family all say 'thee ETT a' though.

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 11/12/2023 19:16

Th-ear-tah" is perhaps more what I meant and how I pronounce it (and how it should be pronounced imo!)

That won't help the rhotic speakers, as you've still got an 'r' in there!

Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 19:16

greencheetah · 11/12/2023 19:00

The way you pronounce it isn’t correct though is it? I don’t think I have ever heard it pronounced Theer-ta. There isn’t an R before the second T.

I would pronounce it thee-ya-tah. The R is silent usually isn’t it? Also SE.

I'd be cringing the full day if I heard someone say "thee-ya-tah" 😂

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Queucumber · 11/12/2023 19:18

I’m glad you find non southern accents funny.

RougeFraise · 11/12/2023 19:18

So I am SE.

I say thee-a-tuh when talking about going to the theatre.

however near me is a theatre. And when I say ‘oh is that at the xx theatre?’ I’d say Theer-ta. How weird is that.

pickledandpuzzled · 11/12/2023 19:19

theeuhtuh, emphasis on first syllable.

TheeEtta, emphasis on second syllable and thought by some to be posher.