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Pronouncing theatre...

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Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 18:48

Ok ok, I realise this has probably been debated many times before but -

AIBU to massively cringe when I hear people say "thee-et-er" instead of "theer-ta"?

Live in the south east and it just seems ridiculous that people who otherwise speak in a normal south eastern accent say it like that. To me, it sounds like a hyacinth bucket moment! My boss was telling me about her upcoming trip and I couldn't focus at all beyond the cringe!

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ColleenDonaghy · 11/12/2023 19:50

HideTheCroissants · 11/12/2023 19:44

I’m from SE London and I pronounce it thee-uh-ter with that middle uh being very brief but definitely there.

Same here, I'm Irish. Very much so pronounce the R.

PurpleChrayne · 11/12/2023 19:51

It's usually pronounced like that by the same people who pronounce "homosexual" as "hommer-SEK-syeul". Pretentious!

RecycleThie · 11/12/2023 19:53

Tiss-yew
Tishoo

Stellium · 11/12/2023 19:53

Yeah, I just say "theer-tuh", when people pronounce it when 3 syllables it sounds really posh to me.

riotlady · 11/12/2023 19:54

Butchyrestingface · 11/12/2023 19:12

I am Scottish so it's a THEE-YAY-TUR(D) from me, Brucie.

My mum and granny are Scottish and I love the way they say theatre!

I’m from the north east and say thee-ah-turr, I can’t say it theer-ta without putting on a horrible sort of transatlantic accent like a 30s film star

Stellium · 11/12/2023 19:55

I think the same when people say Choc-o-lut/choc-o-let I stead of just choclut 😂 (I have an added glottal stop so it's more like choc-luh'

Bobthethird · 11/12/2023 19:56

Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 19:24

Wish I could edit my OP as didn't seem to type it on the way I thought I had!

I don't really have an issue with three syllables (although use 2 myself).

It's those who say "thee-eTT-er" with the emphasis on ETT that make my insides feel funny 😬

so much makes you cringe and feel funny, i really think you need to get out more and not just to the three syllabled theatre

gotomomo · 11/12/2023 19:57

Definitely 3 syllables here, grew up in London, my mum pronounces the same. I think it's just a normal variation!

NoNoNanette · 11/12/2023 19:58

Queucumber · 11/12/2023 19:18

I’m glad you find non southern accents funny.

They're a scream, aren't they?

Stellium · 11/12/2023 19:58

TBF, with a non-rhotic accent and a glottal stop, theatre sounds more like "thee'-uh"

TommyNever · 11/12/2023 19:59

Aphroditee · 11/12/2023 19:12

Well, you’d double cringe hearing me pronounce it.

I’m from Yorkshire and say “thee-uh-er". The “uh” being a glottle stop.

I'd imagine that's how Cockneys used to pronounce it too, when they spoke proper Cockney.

NoNoNanette · 11/12/2023 19:59

PurpleChrayne · 11/12/2023 19:51

It's usually pronounced like that by the same people who pronounce "homosexual" as "hommer-SEK-syeul". Pretentious!

What if they aren't 'pretending'?

Fifthtimelucky · 11/12/2023 20:00

LucyInTheParkWithDragons · 11/12/2023 18:55

I know what you mean - ‘thee ETT a’ with a big flourish on the middle syllable. Normally said by (irritating) thesps, IME.

Yes. My husband does this. He did a lot of am-dram when he was younger so I assume he started doing it then.

It sounds very pretentious to me but he doesn't mean it to.

thousandyears · 11/12/2023 20:00

CorporaINobbyNobbs · 11/12/2023 19:22

I’ve no idea how the OP thinks it’s pronounced. I say thee-et-er which is how’s it is spelt!

It's not spelt that way though Confused

NoNoNanette · 11/12/2023 20:01

@Werehalfwaythere

AIBU to massively cringe when I hear people say "thee-et-er" instead of "theer-ta"?

I say it like that, what's wrong with it?

MamaDollyorJesus · 11/12/2023 20:02

ThanksMateThanksMate · 11/12/2023 18:55

On Friday there I saw 'Christine' from Two Doors Down perform in the panto at The King's 'THEERTUR'

That's how I say it!

CrushingOnRubies · 11/12/2023 20:02

I pronounce theatre as Thea-Ta

I have an odd west country accent

EvilRingahBitch · 11/12/2023 20:04

I honestly can't be arsed to make the distinction between any of these basically similar pronunciations.

People who say the-8-er should be burnt at the stake, but I've never met any of them in real life, I think they're made up for comic effect.

AppleCrispMacchiato · 11/12/2023 20:05

Werehalfwaythere · 11/12/2023 19:15

Exactly. Maybe "theer-ta" wasn't easy for some to see what I meant.

"Th-ear-tah" is perhaps more what I meant and how I pronounce it (and how it should be pronounced imo!)

I just said it out loud about ten times and I agree with you. I pronounce it with three syllables but with the middle syllable kind of slurred into the other two, not with the emphasis put on the middle syllable.

I know exactly what pronunciation you mean and it doesn't annoy me but it's a little bit pretentious.

CampsieGlamper · 11/12/2023 20:07

Is that her from a "filum"?

Laiste · 11/12/2023 20:15

Thee-a-uh.

3 sylllables. No t's and no r's

My accent's like Stacy Dooley's.

JaninaDuszejko · 11/12/2023 20:21

Interestingly I think saying it with just two syllables, extended vowels and non-rhotic R: 'I went to the theee-tuh dah-ling' (like Craig Revel Horwood) sounds much more wanky and pretentious than saying it properly (like a Scot) with three syllables and pronouncing the r: thee-a-terr.

NoNoNanette · 11/12/2023 20:28

@Werehalfwaythere

AIBU to massively cringe when I hear people say "thee-et-er" instead of "theer-ta"?

I say it like that. What's wrong with it?

LakieLady · 11/12/2023 20:31

Usernamesarenoteasy · 11/12/2023 18:54

Is it not more like 'thee uh ter'
I've never heard anyone pronounce it remotely like theerta

It is when I say it!

cornflakesandtea · 11/12/2023 20:37

I say it your way OP, as does everyone I work with, and we all work in a theer-tuh (but probably not the kind you're thinking of!).

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