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To wonder why black hair dye is so popular

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Fudgeycake · 11/12/2023 16:05

Lots of women of all ages seem to dye their hair jet black, even though black box dye can look super flat and draining on some complexions (particularly people with pale skin) and it's quite aging? I'm just wondering why really jet dark black is so popular? Do you dye your hair black and why? I get it can be part of a certain aesthetic (goth or 30s/40s pin-up look etc.)

In comparison, I get why women go blonde or brown/caramel when it isn't their natural colour - the right shade can be very brightening and look youthful. (For context my greys have really taken off recently and I've been thinking about hair dye a lot!)

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HikingforScenery · 11/12/2023 17:44

Fudgeycake · 11/12/2023 16:05

Lots of women of all ages seem to dye their hair jet black, even though black box dye can look super flat and draining on some complexions (particularly people with pale skin) and it's quite aging? I'm just wondering why really jet dark black is so popular? Do you dye your hair black and why? I get it can be part of a certain aesthetic (goth or 30s/40s pin-up look etc.)

In comparison, I get why women go blonde or brown/caramel when it isn't their natural colour - the right shade can be very brightening and look youthful. (For context my greys have really taken off recently and I've been thinking about hair dye a lot!)

I’ve seen note of those colours you’re admiring in your last paragraph look horrible many, many times.
Sounds like just your bias contingency through..

Black hair is beautiful. Pale people with dark hair just lol even more striking imo

orangeguy · 11/12/2023 17:46

I can't say I know many black haired people.

ChoupetteTheCat · 11/12/2023 17:47

What colour is your hair @Fudgeycake ?

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 17:47

MadamVastra · 11/12/2023 17:37

This is why at the moment im not dying my hair - the root horror and the flat look. No guarantee it will look like that I know but the thought of it is worse than salt and pepper hair. And @Keilagh wow you've seen EVERY white person with dyed black hair? Impressive

I don’t need to see every single one 🤣 The combination of light skin + jet black hair is just unappealing to me. Just looks bad in general.

Sususudio · 11/12/2023 17:47

The ones who don't know any black haired people, do you all only meet or see white people? Most of the world is black haired.

Butchyrestingface · 11/12/2023 17:51

Because they LIKE the colour? Isn't it obvious? 😐

AffIt · 11/12/2023 17:54

Well, the vast majority of the world's population has naturally black or very dark brown hair.

However, box black dyes (which generally produce quite a 'flat' colour) very rarely suit people of Northern European descent, which I'm guessing are the sort of people you're referring to?

Dianaofthelakeofshiningwaters · 11/12/2023 17:57

My natural hair colour is the darkest brown/almost black (so much so that hairdressers have often assumed it was dyed) and my skin is v pale (Irish heritage) and I don't think that I look "bad in general" @Keilagh.

Luckily for me I also like wearing black and it suits me. It's a shame that I never wanted to be a goth as I'm pretty much 90% there already 🤣

Konfetka · 11/12/2023 18:01

Headband · 11/12/2023 16:19

My friend dyes her hair jet black, she looks amazing. You could equally ask why some women bleach their hair, horses for courses 🤷‍♀️

I read that quickly, and thought "who on earth dyes their horses hair?"

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 18:03

Dianaofthelakeofshiningwaters · 11/12/2023 17:57

My natural hair colour is the darkest brown/almost black (so much so that hairdressers have often assumed it was dyed) and my skin is v pale (Irish heritage) and I don't think that I look "bad in general" @Keilagh.

Luckily for me I also like wearing black and it suits me. It's a shame that I never wanted to be a goth as I'm pretty much 90% there already 🤣

IN GENERAL the colour combination looks bad TO ME. I swear some people on here are mentally backwards.

Dianaofthelakeofshiningwaters · 11/12/2023 18:06

You sound like such a delightful person @Keilagh.

ChoupetteTheCat · 11/12/2023 18:08

@Keilagh Are you ok?

stayathomer · 11/12/2023 18:10

I think possibly people might just dye their hair brown and it stays on too long? My hair takes dye ridiculously fast!!

agentcooperinthewhitelodge · 11/12/2023 18:17

I dye my hair black (although it's more of a very dark brown) because quite simply, it suits me. I look a bit like Liv Tyler with a very cool colouring so warm colours like caramel, honey or blonde look absolutely bloody hideous on me as I am cool toned and they are very warm. I also like the combination of dark hair and light/green eyes, I think its stunning.

I dont know why you chose to mention black specifically as I have seen many, many bleached blondes or fake redheads that have a very harsh hair colour and the wrong colour (whatever the shade) can look bad if it doesn't suit that person's colouring. You don't like dyed black hair- that's fine, but it's utter nonsense to suggest that black is the only colour that can look harsh and be aging on certain people. Brassy blonde and that weird aubergine shade that so many older women like is deeply unflattering to me.

Sususudio · 11/12/2023 18:19

When I think of a pale skinned person with very dark hair, I think of Cillian Murphy, whom I find very attractive. Or the Corrs, I think?

NonPlayerCharacter · 11/12/2023 18:22

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 18:03

IN GENERAL the colour combination looks bad TO ME. I swear some people on here are mentally backwards.

You said it looked disgusting and accused people who do it of thinking that they look like Megan Fox. You didn't say it wasn't to your taste, you overtly insulted people and made up shit about them. And now you're insulting them further for pulling you up on your nastiness.

Why can't you just say, "I'm sorry, that was a mean thing to say. It's just not a look I go for." Why start lying about a post that's right there for anyone to check and throwing around more insults?

AllIsWellish · 11/12/2023 18:25

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 17:26

Nonsense? It’s called my opinion. It looks rank on any white person tbh including Dita Von Whoever

Well yeah, it may be your opinion but in my opinion you are talking shit

Tacotortoise · 11/12/2023 18:26

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 17:08

Unless someone has naturally tanned skin it just looks disgusting. In their minds they look like Megan Fox, but they definitely don’t 🫢

That must be a real blow to all those Celts with pale white skin and black hair Hmm

I know it's hard to believe OP but we don't all aspire to be blonde .

NonPlayerCharacter · 11/12/2023 18:26

I don't think Keilagh knows what "disgusting" or "rank" even mean.

Beezknees · 11/12/2023 18:28

If the logic that us women who dye our hair dark think we look like Megan Fox, does that mean women who dye their hair blonde think they look like Cameron Diaz?

OceanStorm · 11/12/2023 18:30

Fudgeycake · 11/12/2023 16:05

Lots of women of all ages seem to dye their hair jet black, even though black box dye can look super flat and draining on some complexions (particularly people with pale skin) and it's quite aging? I'm just wondering why really jet dark black is so popular? Do you dye your hair black and why? I get it can be part of a certain aesthetic (goth or 30s/40s pin-up look etc.)

In comparison, I get why women go blonde or brown/caramel when it isn't their natural colour - the right shade can be very brightening and look youthful. (For context my greys have really taken off recently and I've been thinking about hair dye a lot!)

You prefer the aryan look. Ok

PiIIock · 11/12/2023 18:30

Nonsense? It’s called my opinion. It looks rank on any white person tbh including Dita Von Whoever

How can you make a universal statement and then complain when someone calls it nonsense?

Black hair on pale skin looks striking if the cut and makeup is right.

NonPlayerCharacter · 11/12/2023 18:33

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 17:26

Nonsense? It’s called my opinion. It looks rank on any white person tbh including Dita Von Whoever

Nonsense? It’s called my opinion.

Ah, potato, potarto.

ChanelNo19EDT · 11/12/2023 18:33

Sususudio · 11/12/2023 18:19

When I think of a pale skinned person with very dark hair, I think of Cillian Murphy, whom I find very attractive. Or the Corrs, I think?

Cillian Murphy has brown hair. I was thinking of courtney Cox. It suited her and she's pale,but it's a tough look to pull off. Maybe Courtney Cox has cool colouring.

Keilagh · 11/12/2023 18:33

NonPlayerCharacter · 11/12/2023 18:22

You said it looked disgusting and accused people who do it of thinking that they look like Megan Fox. You didn't say it wasn't to your taste, you overtly insulted people and made up shit about them. And now you're insulting them further for pulling you up on your nastiness.

Why can't you just say, "I'm sorry, that was a mean thing to say. It's just not a look I go for." Why start lying about a post that's right there for anyone to check and throwing around more insults?

Edited

I do know some girls who dyed it to look like Megan Fox tbf.

I did say in another post it’s my personal opinion and that I just don’t find the colour combination appealing. Of course others will find it attractive that’s why they dye it in the first place. I don’t feel the need to put a disclaimer after every single post to remind people that I’m talking subjectively & that I’m not the spokesperson for the entire population.