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Husband pet names

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Beanz2022 · 10/12/2023 23:42

There is no context here, but my husband in the last year thanks or addresses EVERY woman with either the following:

"Thank you my love"

"Thank you Miss"

"Thank you young lady"

"Hello smiley"

"Wow you're super smiley"

All of this is infromt of me and it makes me cringe so bad, and I feel embarrassed
, I'm not sure why.

Am I being silly?

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Useruser1212 · 10/12/2023 23:47

I'd find that a bit cringey too. Unless he was like 80 and giving santa vibes.

Beanz2022 · 10/12/2023 23:50

He's 44 I'm 33

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Useruser1212 · 10/12/2023 23:51

Yeah he's way too young to use "young lady" it's actually a bit creepy. No offence!

LastNightIDreamtIWasAtManderleyAgain · 10/12/2023 23:54

Are you from different regions or social backgrounds? Are his parents old? Is he close to his grandparents? Is he into one of the retro scenes, like steampunk, or swing dance? If he unironically wears Christmas jumpers, it's probably innocent.

stepintochristmas1 · 10/12/2023 23:57

That's quite funny sounds like a Harry Enfield character 😁.

Beanz2022 · 10/12/2023 23:59

Same religion, same background - mum is 72,.dad has passed. All grandparents passed too. Not into any of the above, he's a 6ft 2 basketball player by hobby, and works as a customer service manager.

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tomatoontoast · 10/12/2023 23:59

Smiley????? Please ask him to stop OP. How embarrassing Confused

coffy11 · 11/12/2023 00:00

I bet he would never talk to a man like this, it sounds like he's talking down to women, almost like he's talking to a child.

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:00

Does he have mushy pet names for you or his friends?

LastNightIDreamtIWasAtManderleyAgain · 11/12/2023 00:06

Has a sexist/ironic manager at work given his team training in 'charm'? If so, maybe he has to rizz people up at work and it's becoming second nature?

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