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Fluffy socks and hot chocolate

89 replies

cocktailanddreams · 09/12/2023 22:43

Festive gripes....I like both...however it appears Christmas doesn't go ahead without them.
Christmas Eve boxes full of them, it's always the default suggestion 'cosy night with hot chocolate' .
It irritates me, feel free to tell me I'm grumpy

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HermioneWeasley · 10/12/2023 09:53

SingingSands · 09/12/2023 23:09

I hate it too. It creates this "cozy night in" scenario, when in reality it takes about 10 mins to drink a hot chocolate. Then what? Sit back and admire your socks? 😄

That made me LOL

User2856948 · 10/12/2023 09:56

I have hot chocolate in the velvetiser every night apart from summer so it's just another drink, years ago people had ovaltine, I don't know when it suddenly became a Christmas thing

Ginmonkeyagain · 10/12/2023 09:58

I hate hot chocolate and all hot milky drinks.

Also hate socks. I wear warm ones at home in winter (usually wool mix or cashmere) as it is preferable to cold feet and I hate slippers even more, but I cannot wait until wamer weather when my toes can wriggle free as nature intended.

10HailMarys · 10/12/2023 10:05

I hadn’t actually noticed that either of these things were more prevalent than usual, so I think maybe the mistake you’ve made here is paying even the slightest bit of attention to the concept of a “Christmas Eve box” in the first place.

Anyway. I like a hot chocolate but I wouldn’t consider it the focal point of a night in, or indeed something particularly exciting. And I don’t like having socks on indoors, for some reason. They make me feel vaguely claustrophobic (I’m aware that’s probably a bit weird). Slippers over bare feet for padding around the house, and bare feet for lounging on the sofa.

10HailMarys · 10/12/2023 10:11

cocktailanddreams · 09/12/2023 23:16

'Previous family time of a movie and snacks, my world'

This is what I don’t really understand either. Since when did having a hot drink and a snack while watching a film become an actual event rather than just a fairly normal evening? What are these people doing on other nights at home?

User2856948 · 10/12/2023 10:21

Warm bath and new Christmas family PJs, though are these washed first as everything else seems to be washed first on here or are Christmas PJs exempt from pre washing. Snuggly blanket, Hot chocolate, movie, fluffy socks, all cosy on the sofa, dog farting in front of the wood burner.

inamarina · 10/12/2023 10:22

SingingSands · 09/12/2023 23:09

I hate it too. It creates this "cozy night in" scenario, when in reality it takes about 10 mins to drink a hot chocolate. Then what? Sit back and admire your socks? 😄

Ha, that’s what I always think - it surely doesn’t take that long to drink a hot chocolate, and then what?

cocktailanddreams · 10/12/2023 10:25

You then stroke the socks and post on Facebook how blessed you/your feet are

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AIstolemylunch · 10/12/2023 10:29

You lost me at Christmas Eve box.

Like that ridiculous Elf on the Shelf nonsense, another Christmas 'tradition' that's only turned up in the last 10 years or so in order to sell more shit for the day before Christmas and leading up to it as well as the actual day.

cocktailanddreams · 10/12/2023 10:31

Christmas Eve box involves doing a sweep up at Poundland, box it and bow...and excited face for the famalam

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Perfectlystill · 10/12/2023 10:35

Christmas Eve boxes as a concept are awful.

I was sitting in the sofa with my dog on my lap and a gin and tonic in my hand watching Yellowstone the other day and thought that was actual perfection. I had some Mini Cheddars too.

missushbbb · 10/12/2023 10:40

Probably mentioned already but hot chocolate station too- sounds nice but who has room for this in their kitchens?!

missushbbb · 10/12/2023 10:41

theduchessofspork · 10/12/2023 01:06

Fluffy socks always sound like sweaty flight socks, don’t really like hot chocolate.

But it’s just an annoying twee vision that reminds me of all those fecking stock shots of women cradling mugs in eg psychologies magazine

😂😂😂

CharityShopChic · 10/12/2023 10:43

It's so lacking in imagination.

Lots of us do not like hot chocolate. And would never wear a fluffy sock. Also unsure why "hot choc" - never chocolate - has this Christmas association. Much beloved of the "snuggling under a blankie with my little famalam #blessed" contingent though.

AutumnCrow · 10/12/2023 10:45

meatbaseddessert · 10/12/2023 06:57

What about fucking 'hot chocolate stations'?
It's a tea tray with some cocoa powder and a jar of marshmallows cluttering up a kitchen surface. Compared to these things being in a cupboard instead.

Hmm

So when posters say they 'set up a hot chocolate station' they basically ... put a few things on a tray? I actually thought it involved assembling something mechanical and sophisticated with echoes of Swiss design technology.

Sidebeforeself · 10/12/2023 10:45

Don’t forget the year long “ put your favourite music on and dance around the kitchen”! For some reason whenever I read that it brings me out in a rage! But yes I also hate “ hot choc and movie night” too….yours, The Grinch!

mynewusername2023 · 10/12/2023 10:48

I'm incredibly particular about my socks so hate getting them. Also not a fan of rich hot chocolate so would pass on that. This is why I'm glad we do Christmas lists for my DH side of the family. No idea which items we'll get but at least we know we'll love them.

AIstolemylunch · 10/12/2023 10:48

Also, wtaf is a Velvetiser?

I do like watching TV with a fleec blanket at this time of year but I don't think that has to involve hot chocolate or Christmas. Personally, I do it with pink gin or tea.

TheKeatingFive · 10/12/2023 10:53

Like that ridiculous Elf on the Shelf nonsense, another Christmas 'tradition' that's only turned up in the last 10 years or so in order to sell more shit

We have an elf. I haven't spent a penny on it in the 7 years we've had it. Initial outlay 5 euro. So I'm never quite sure where these posts are coming from.

Anyway, I'm waiting for the poster from the Christmas Eve box thread who didn't understand hot chocolate sachets to turn up. She was fun.

Iwantmyoldnameback · 10/12/2023 10:53

I thought everyone spent Christmas Eve rushing around like a blue arsed fly then once the kids are in bed finding all the Father Christmas gifts hidden round the house. And best of all making up the fucking FC toys.

AIstolemylunch · 10/12/2023 10:57

Exactly, invented 7 or 8 years ago to generate huge sales from every new family now feeling compelled to buy one, not to mention having to think of new scenarios for it every day in December. Really glad mine were a bit older when the stupid things became a thing.

SockQueen · 10/12/2023 11:00

Iwantmyoldnameback · 10/12/2023 10:53

I thought everyone spent Christmas Eve rushing around like a blue arsed fly then once the kids are in bed finding all the Father Christmas gifts hidden round the house. And best of all making up the fucking FC toys.

This. Plus peeling piles of veg for the following day. Not a lot of cosy snuggles time.

MagpiePi · 10/12/2023 11:06

LolaSmiles · 09/12/2023 23:13

It creates this "cozy night in" scenario, when in reality it takes about 10 mins to drink a hot chocolate. Then what? Sit back and admire your socks?
😂
I believe that there must also be blankets and snuggling as well.

I think you mean ‘blankies’!
You also need a fire and a Christmas movie. Some would also insist on fairy lights and festive candles.

(‘Snuggle’ makes me want to hurl)

CharityShopChic · 10/12/2023 11:09

I love chocolate. The hard stuff in bars. I do not like any sort of milky drinks like latte coffees, milkshakes, lassi and so on, so the idea of melting decent chocolate and sticking it in warm milk is just ugh.

AlwaysForksAndMarbles · 10/12/2023 11:19

I don’t actually care how much of any of this stuff anyone else does - because we’re all different. (They are mostly wrong, though). But I do object to it all over social media, and done as if it’s obligatory or you’re depriving your children of some magic experience which is going to scar them for life. That’s the bollocks part.

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