DH and I have always had mismatched sex drives. I had a high sex drive. His was low. I’ve spent many nights in bed looking at his back, yearning for sex. Fast forward to now, I’ve lost weight, had a face lift, I actually look amazing and he wants to jump my bones every 5 minutes. On the one hand that’s nice, but on the other, I feel like it’s too little too late. We had a few days of non stop sex, which was nice, but now I’m getting a bit bored of it. I’m 54, I just feel like he missed the boat so badly. I was desperate for sex in my 40s but he didn’t take it and now it’s just a bit too late or presumptuous to think he can just pick me up now like a toy that hasn’t been played with in years. I’m so shocked at my reaction to this. I thought if he had a turn around I’d jump on it, but now it’s happened I’m a bit Meh. And when I say he won’t leave me alone, I mean he follows me about, trying to snog me and grind on me , and I feel like screaming you’re 10 years too late to the party !