DH has a new job and is crudely speaking a travelling salesman. Him and his colleagues get paired up to go round visiting their clients all over the world. Recently on a trip, a colleague (15 years younger than him, lovely long blond hair) told him a client gets handy when he's drunk. She said she would like to leave before the client gets to that level. DH was telling me that he should probably let their line manager know. I feel sorry she's experiencing something so horrible. .now the AIBU part. I have a tin voice in the back of my head saying:
Psychologically, men (DH) feel good about themselves being in a capacity where they have to protect a woman (his colleague) and the colleague's situation also lets him know she is good looking and so much so that men can't help but get handsy with her.
I am at my absolute rock bottom right now. I am 8 months postpartum. I look the worst I've ever looked, I am the heaviest I've ever been, I've had the other end of the scale of DH's colleague and people call me fat in public. DH is far better looking than I am. I really feel he settled for me because we're sadly from a culture where being divorced is looked unkindly on and he is divorced. At my lowest I can convince myself he could do so much better than me.
DH and I haven't been getting on great lately. We have a week where we are very good and then a week where we have fought. I just feel we're on shaky ground although he doesn't think so.
AIBU to feel nervous about DH's colleague and her unintentionally making DH think she's attractive.