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To say sister needs to get checked out ?

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IceAndLemonPlease · 01/12/2023 22:03

She is staying over with us for 2 weeks. Unfortunately caught a virus from me snd I or DH. She started with it on Sunday but despite having a sore throat continued to go out socially and was just necking paracetamol 24/7. On Tuesday however it then went into a headache, a vomiting attack and now endless coughing and I mean endless. Also gone completely deaf in both ears to the point where she literally cannot hear anything we are saying to her. She is not a smoker, has no underlying health conditions and is in her thirties. Aibu to say this all seems extreme and she should see a GP? Even DH who is immune compressed was not throwing up or coughing to this extent? If anything it seems like she has gotten worse

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LauderSyme · 01/12/2023 22:09

YANBU. The other symptoms could be caused by one of the awful viruses that have proliferated recently, but sudden deafness is a medical emergency and should be checked out asap.

LauderSyme · 01/12/2023 22:10

Is she resistant to seeing a doctor?

Baublewarble · 01/12/2023 22:11

When you say ‘necking paracetamol’ could she have overdosed?

HundredMilesAnHour · 01/12/2023 22:12

Has she taken a Covid test?

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 01/12/2023 22:13

How much paracetamol was she taking?

idontlikealdi · 01/12/2023 22:14

Coughing a lot can cause issue with ear pressure

Hbh17 · 01/12/2023 22:15

Maybe she does, maybe she doesn't. But it is her decision - nobody else's.

WetBandits · 01/12/2023 22:19

I had flu last year (missed my bloody jab) and was coughing, vomiting, had a horrific headache and went deaf in both ears towards the tail end! Three weeks of misery.

Tistheseason17 · 01/12/2023 22:27

Tell her to call 111 who will assess her and direct her to the most appropriate service - most likely an out of hours doctor this weekend. Don't wait til Monday.

organicbox · 01/12/2023 23:15

Overdosing on paracetamol can cause deafness, and can have very delayed consequences. If she's taken over the stated dose she MUST see a medic. Even if it was days ago.

IceAndLemonPlease · 02/12/2023 09:35

She is refusing.
Day six now and coughing literally all night and this morning too. Getting worse if anything which is not normal but won’t do a thing about it.
She was as I said socialising when she had a sore throat and was taking 8 paracetamols per day often in quick succession.
As I said, me and DH have been bad with it but there was a gradual improvement after five days or so even if small. With her it’s just getting worse..

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LauderSyme · 02/12/2023 15:38

You must be worried about her - and irritated with her constant coughing!

I think she is being foolish but if being this poorly doesn't motivate her to see a doctor, I am not sure what will.

Hopefully it is "just" a nasty virus and the deafness is attributable to that.

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