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Is this an odd friendship?

19 replies

lizjgo · 01/12/2023 17:27

AIBU to think it's weird for a 24 year old girl to be friends with an 18 or 19 year old girl?

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lizjgo · 01/12/2023 17:27

I mean women, not girls.

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Stresa22 · 01/12/2023 17:28

No, not weird at all.

QueenBean22 · 01/12/2023 17:28

Nope. Fine

MMMarmite · 01/12/2023 17:30

Seems fine to me

lizjgo · 01/12/2023 17:32

Thank you. I ask because I'm on an app to make female friends and I've had similar interests with a few 18 and 19 year olds, but haven't wanted to message them as I thought it may be odd?!

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DumpedByText · 01/12/2023 17:35

Not at all, I'm very good friends with a woman 20 years younger than me. No one bat's an eyelid!

category12 · 01/12/2023 17:36

No, worth seeing if you get along.

It might be that they turn out to be too immature or different life stages to you when you chat to them, but there's very few years between you, so you might have loads in common.

wineoclock90 · 01/12/2023 17:38

No not odd at all

Firapple · 01/12/2023 17:40

Exactly what is it you think is 'odd' about it? Quite apart from the fact that these aren't friendships, or anywhere near it -- these are people with whom you share interests on an app, but with whom you haven't even exchanged messages yet?

CrapGoat · 01/12/2023 17:42

I'm 41 and one of my close friends is a 53 year old bloke. We get on well and trust and care about one another. Don't really care if other people think It's odd to be honest. I'd not find it odd to see a 20 something person being friends with an 18 or 19 year old.

Elvis1956 · 01/12/2023 17:50

M friendship group runs from 23 to 76 year olds. I'm 55. When I was your age the main group were 17 to 32. We were all adults, not a problem.

UsingChangeofName · 01/12/2023 17:57

YABU.
Nothing odd about being friends with someone with similar interests or similar sense of humour to yourself, whatever their age.
I have plenty of friends who are 20 yrs plus older than me, and others that are a lot younger.

Mischance · 01/12/2023 18:02

My best friend and neighbour is 15 years younger than I am.

SWSO · 01/12/2023 18:03

No not odd . It's about matching levels of maturity .

QueenBitch666 · 01/12/2023 20:24

Absolutely fine 👍

verdantverdure · 01/12/2023 20:26

I can't imagine being friends with a teenager but I'm 44.

ToWhitToWhoo · 01/12/2023 20:27

Not in the least.

Santaiswashinghissleigh · 01/12/2023 20:29

My bff was 24 ish when I was 15/16..

Iateallllllthepies · 01/12/2023 20:30

I met my best friend of 20 years at work when I was 19 - she was 27 at the time. We had loads in common and enjoyed each others company.

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