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Shaken after being sworn at by horrid man

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cadburyegg · 30/11/2023 17:47

Posting for traffic

Was cycling home from after school club tonight with kids. We all have lights on our bikes and hi vis jackets. Nearly home when I get beeped at by a car. The driver stops and shouts at me that I'm an idiot for driving down the road without lights on the bikes. I said oh, we do have lights but he was adamant that we didn't and he couldn't see us. Became really aggressive and called me a "fucking twat" in front of the dc and that I "shouldn't have" dc.

I feel really upset that he couldn't see us and like an idiot because I thought the lights and hi vis made us visible, they were definitely on and working obviously not and I will get more lights, and make sure this doesn't happen again, but I can see the dc very clearly in the road. he also had a go at us for cycling in the road rather than the pavement. But am also upset that he was so horrible. We are told not to drive to school but I don't want to cycle anymore either. Feel so upset that my dc had to witness it and so guilty 😥

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TheHawkisHowling · 02/12/2023 01:12

HomiesAlone · 01/12/2023 22:38

I've read 2 pages and can't be asked reading anymore from people telling the OP to not cycle. Driver was a twat. A scum. A bad driver too.
Amazing for you to be cycling with kids. Very impressive. Get brighter lights or whatever you need and carry on. We need more cyclists on the road, not fewer.

It's "can't be arsed".

Sorry if it was a typo!

Flufferblub · 02/12/2023 02:50

Must make him feel like a big man to shout abuse at women and children. I would love to spend a day as Tyson Fury, just to see how different these "big men" act

HomiesAlone · 02/12/2023 08:17

Haha, thank you @TheHawkisHowling . I don't think I knew that. I prefer 'asked'! Will continue to let people think it's a typo 🙂

Allfur · 02/12/2023 08:46

Queenmab, and yet they were all visible enough for you to see them and tell them off

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