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M and S charging for carriers

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Sausagenbacon · 27/11/2023 17:28

AIBU to find it cheeky of m&s to charge 10p for a paper carrier bag when I've just spent £50 on a dress? Especially as I got caught in the rain and it disintegrated.
I can understand why you would charge for a plastic bag, but this is ridiculous.

OP posts:
waytooearlyforthis · 28/11/2023 08:42

Vriddle · 28/11/2023 08:34

Shops should charge for every type of single-use bag, plastic or paper. And they should charge more than they do. If the charge for a paper bag was £1, you would quickly discover that carrying your own cloth bag with you at all times is no bother.

I don't have a car and use public transport. I have a light, strong cotton bag tucked into my tiny handbag that has lasted for 7 years and holds a 4pint of milk, no problem. It washes up great, so it's fine to hold clothes too.

I also think supermarkets should not sell plastic 'bags for life' - they should be made of nonplastic materials and they should cost enough to deter people buying endless bags-for-life because they cannot be arsed to carry bags with them.

So your options would be: carry a bag with you, or pay ££ for a new cotton/sisal/silk etc bag.

Even cloth bags have consequences for the environment, so own only as many as you need and repair when possible to extend their life.

How much of a difference does it make compared to the emissions out out of India, China, the US? Unless they change I can't see that taking a reusable bag to M&S is making a difference. I don't get why people aren't more annoyed at being charged for a bay when countries can literally do as the please.

Vriddle · 28/11/2023 08:44

UnremarkableBeasts · 28/11/2023 07:56

That’s still quite a list of things to check you always have on you: bag containing keys, phone, purse, water, reusable bag and etc (because there’s still more that you’re expected to cart around all the time just in case).

But people like you have already decided that because this is easy for you, it is simply easy for everyone. There are several reasons that it just isn’t.

You probably don’t want to think about it but it’s also incredibly gendered. Women are expected to always carry around a bloody bag that contains all sorts of just-in-case stuff to meet everyone’s needs. Men don’t. They’re much less likely to be stuffing plastic bags in every coat pocket than they are to be complaining ‘why didn’t we bring any bags?’ in the supermarket if their wife has forgotten them.

Well off topic, but most men I see around me (London) do have a bag of some sort - a backpack or a man-bag or a messenger - because they also have a phone, charger, water bottle, reusable shopping bag, umbrella, etc to carry.

Tarbert12 · 28/11/2023 08:50

Hey @Mademetoxic do you pick up other people's dog shit for them too?

CornTheCob · 28/11/2023 08:51

I bet people would remember to take a bag if stores started charging a fiver for one.

Mademetoxic · 28/11/2023 08:52

Tarbert12 · 28/11/2023 08:50

Hey @Mademetoxic do you pick up other people's dog shit for them too?

Litter and dog shit are 2 different things. There is a difference picking up a plastic bottle and putting it in the recycling bin to someone else's dog poo.
😕

Mademetoxic · 28/11/2023 08:52

CornTheCob · 28/11/2023 08:51

I bet people would remember to take a bag if stores started charging a fiver for one.

I wish they would.

Mademetoxic · 28/11/2023 08:56

waytooearlyforthis · 28/11/2023 08:42

How much of a difference does it make compared to the emissions out out of India, China, the US? Unless they change I can't see that taking a reusable bag to M&S is making a difference. I don't get why people aren't more annoyed at being charged for a bay when countries can literally do as the please.

Again, every little helps as I've just said to you in a previous post.

MissDollyMix · 28/11/2023 08:57

Where does it end? Will shops start charging us a couple of quid just to enter to cover the cost of the heating?

IGotItFromAgnes · 28/11/2023 09:01

CornTheCob · 28/11/2023 08:51

I bet people would remember to take a bag if stores started charging a fiver for one.

No, I’d just be a lot poorer. Or not eat.

Most people don’t deliberately decide not to take bags shopping.

grass67 · 28/11/2023 09:12

As mentioned before, paper is very damaging to the environment. Plastic is also terrible for the environment. I have a few cloth bags, you can wash them and they look so much nicer. For a big food shop I have the Aldi bags for life. Anything else I use my cloth bags. If you leave some in your car, you always have them.

It's not a rip off, it is an incentive. It's a simple concept and really makes a big difference to the environment. Sadly humans are selfish and lazy and don't care the planet is basically dying.

I agree about the ridiculous amounts of packaging on foods, only way to sort that is to tax the supermarkets. Any fruit, veg etc should be in compostable bags or sold loose.

I would like to see a super tax on imported clothing, it's disgraceful how cheap clothes are, that are just going to landfill. British clothes should be exempt from tax.

StopGo · 28/11/2023 09:13

NI, Wales and Scotland have charged by law for 10 plus years.

Government and retailers don't want you to bring your own bags. It's a lucrative passive income for them. First 20% goes to the government as VAT. Retailers can deduct various expenses perfectly legally. Around 1p in every 5p gets donated to 'good causes'.

Tesco donated £30 million last year alone.

CharityShopChic · 28/11/2023 09:31

It's not about emissions. It's about LITTER.

People have very short memories if they can't remember how much litter was caused by single use bags.

grass67 · 28/11/2023 09:44

It is about emissions, every item of cheap clothing is shipped across the world in a plastic bag. Every tube of toothpaste in an unnecessary box, cucumbers wrapped in plastic, tomatoes in plastic boxes.

The emissions from the factory (china pumps out a horrifying amount) the oil burned to ship goods. Polluting the planet because we are lazy and don't want to reuse bags, or not have the convenience of grabbing 3 plastic wrapped peppers. Honestly if you come home from a bag food shop, how much goes straight in the bin?

SutWytTi · 28/11/2023 09:55

Mademetoxic · 28/11/2023 07:48

If everyone picked up litter when they're out and about, the world would look like a completely different place.

Entitled, I've never heard that before about litter picking.
🤣
Don't you want your area to look litter free?

Yes I pick up litter in my immediate area

But bollocks to it being my job to make the nation litter free.

Bloody Tories have cut everything back so much, that's why it looks crap.

RedPony1 · 28/11/2023 09:58

megletthesecond · 28/11/2023 07:26

Doesn't everyone always have a bag on them? It's pretty basic; keys, phone, purse, water, reusable bag etc.

If you have too many bags go litter picking and reduce your stash a bit. Even the useless paper bags will hold some litter.

Nope. Keys & phone. i don't take a purse/handbag anywhere since Applepay was a thing and have never carried water out and about.

i also don't ever wear a coat except at the stables so i don't generally have a pocket i would put anything in

i take bags food shopping as they are in my car, i go from car to shop back to car so i don't have to carry them around.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 28/11/2023 10:00

I've never heard someone say about picking up litter is entitled.
What is the world coming to when people refuse to make the world look slightly better.

If everyone had your attitude then the local areas would look horrendous.

It is a 2 min job with a litter picker. No excuses.

Every little helps.

Do you not think that the people who wantonly fling their rubbish on to the street might just be the ones to blame - rather than the people who do know how to find a bin for their own waste or take it home with them?

Why are you shaming people who neither drop their own nor want to pick up other people's litter, whilst apparently accepting as a given the truly selfish, entitled people who actually choose to drop it in the first place? Nobody could possibly pick up my litter, even if they desperately wanted to, because, like the majority of people who have a little respect for others, I don't drop any.

Diamonde · 28/11/2023 10:04

No, I’d just be a lot poorer. Or not eat.
Most people don’t deliberately decide not to take bags shopping.

You don't forget your wallet or keys. Because you know there are consequences.

If bags costed more, you'd remember.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 28/11/2023 10:08

People have very short memories if they can't remember how much litter was caused by single use bags.

We spend a lot more on bin bags now than we used to. Not too sure how that makes a huge difference.

Likewise the outcry about single-use plastic bottles that end up in the oceans: any that I use get put in the recycling bin and put out for the council, so if they can't manage to keep the collected waste safely contained until it gets to the processing plant, I don't really see how that's somehow my fault.

grass67 · 28/11/2023 10:12

I've stopped using bin bags 😁 I don't put any food waste in my bin, so everything is dry. I just put in in the house bin , then tip it into the wheel bin. it gets tipped by the bin men just the same. To be honest not a lot goes in the landfill bin anymore.

SutWytTi · 28/11/2023 10:15

Mademetoxic · 28/11/2023 08:27

From your pp you make it sound like you can't be bothered. You don't have the time or inclination were your exact words.

Said people are entitled. I think your attitude is entitled and strange. Never have I heard someone say it's entitled to pick up litter. This thread is crazy.

They didn't say you were entitled to pick up litter, they said you are being entitled to demand other people do it just because you yourself choose to do it.

I pick up litter myself. But I don't think other people have to do it.

Your posts have been rather sanctimonious. Lots of people don't have time. They're not to blame for any mess. The people primarily to blame are the government who have cut council budgets so much the streets are a mess. The majority of litter comes from bins, not from being dropped deliberately. That's why councils used to empty them regularly and sweep up.

Tory councillors often blame people for not litter picking - they can get knotted. Restore council budgets.

Those who do actively drop litter are wrong, of course, but the real issue is lack of street cleaning these days.

madeinmanc · 28/11/2023 10:22

MsPloddingBottom · 27/11/2023 21:48

I take a spare bag in my handbag

Actually a bag for life fills the whole handbag up unless you're carrying a massive tote bag everywhere 🙄

And while we're on the subject of hypocrisy, why is it somehow OK for me- a public transportation user- to be charged over the odds for a bag but dog owners are free to buy endless wasteful plastic bags, bag up poo and put those into landfill (in the-best case scenario)? Why aren't they forced to use biodegradable bags?

CharityShopChic · 28/11/2023 10:23

So you get the wee drawstring ones like the one I posted a pic upthread. Nobody has to carry around bulky bags for life in their bag/pocket.

Honestly, some people are just deliberately difficult.

Thatswhy11 · 28/11/2023 10:26

My local M&S have started doing paper bags it's a joke given its a lot of elderly shop there and it might rain. I don't mind 10p but they charge 30p, definitely not 10p where I live. They have got some other bags for life for 60p nice print but you can't get much in.

I don't always carry bags if I nip in after work! I expect a decent bag to put my shopping in.

wensleywhale · 28/11/2023 10:28

Riverlee · 27/11/2023 17:31

I thought retailers have to charge for bags by law.

Thought that was just plastic

IGotItFromAgnes · 28/11/2023 10:31

Diamonde · 28/11/2023 10:04

No, I’d just be a lot poorer. Or not eat.
Most people don’t deliberately decide not to take bags shopping.

You don't forget your wallet or keys. Because you know there are consequences.

If bags costed more, you'd remember.

I do forget my wallet. I have forgotten my car keys on numerous occasions.

Costing more would make no difference to my ability to remember. ADHD doesn’t work like that, sadly.