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To ask partner to leave whilst I get induced

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suzie0999 · 14/11/2023 20:24

My waters broke at 36 weeks yesterday and I am being induced.

I am feeling so stressed as I al finding partner so annoying.
I would probably feel better going through the the birth as everything he does seem to annoy me.

For example I have gestational diabetes and he is trying to argue with me that I can eat a Toffee Mullers yogurt.

I have had to do a Strep B test and is arguing with me that I should allow him to watch him allow me put the sample in my bum.

When I asked him would he feel comfortable if I were to watch him he starts arguing with me and tells me to F off.

I dont know if it is my hormones or what but he is driving me crazy.

I feel so stressed as it is.

Its like anything little thing I do he will try and question it or challenge me.

Am I being unreasonable to ask him to leave?

OP posts:
AmazingSnakeHead · 15/11/2023 10:48

Well done OP, thinking of you.

When you leave hospital, is there a possibility of you going to your family's? The newborn days are wonderful but hard work, you don't want to be stuck with an abusive controlling man for that time.

suzie0999 · 15/11/2023 13:28

Thanks guy!
I have just been induced!

Really scared of the unknown but have lovely midwives with me supporting me.
Xxx

OP posts:
Spencer0220 · 15/11/2023 13:28

Good luck!

Ihatethenewlook · 15/11/2023 13:31

Good luck op. Have you got someone else to be with you?

pickledandpuzzled · 15/11/2023 14:24

Thinking of you Suzie! Hoping for a calm delivery for you, and do ask the midwives for support. Make sure they know you don’t want him back- they will help you with next steps.

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