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To think fireworks either need to be banned

107 replies

IceAndLemonPlease · 12/11/2023 21:29

Or made soundproof?
I have spent the last 5 hours trying to calm my terrified cat who has hid under my bed refusing to come out. My daughter woke up crying an hour ago as the fireworks were deafening and I haven’t been able to concentrate on a thing as it’s so noisy outside. Honestly been worse than NYE around here these past few days. Definitely have been going on until past 11PM also.

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Sandrine1982 · 12/11/2023 22:01

@dumpkin not being able to sleep because of fireworks going off? Literally now, all around, still??

SoloCat · 12/11/2023 22:01

Ballsbaill · 12/11/2023 21:54

Harmful to the environment...is that a joke?

Pet food is responsible for a massive percentage of the global carbon foot print.

One pet cat generates an average of 310kg of CO2e per year. This is the equivalent of a 12 hour drive. There are 11 million cats in the UK. So multiply rhe 310kg by 11 million.

An area double the size of the UK is used to produce dry pet food for cats and dogs each year, a study shows.

If you care about the environment you wouldn't keep a cat or dog.

Edited

I think humans are the ones creating more carbon footprint than cats and dogs…

CaramacFiend · 12/11/2023 22:01

I've never been that bothered tbh but tonight somebody is letting off some proper bangers a few houses down and it's pissing me off now.

Houseplanter · 12/11/2023 22:03

It's the Festival of Bangs here tonight.

Gone 10pm is too late.

SoloCat · 12/11/2023 22:04

Ballsbaill · 12/11/2023 21:55

See my post about how harmful your living creature is. Quite right your cat didn't ask to be here. Get rid for the sake of the environment.

Did you ask to be here? Did any of us?

ShirleyPhallus · 12/11/2023 22:04

HeavenCANTwait · 12/11/2023 21:43

It's Diwali today

So what?

dumpkin · 12/11/2023 22:04

@Sandrine1982 my dc are asleep though so not every child is the same. I don’t remember fireworks disturbing me as a dc & we didn’t have double glazing then.

DontSetYourselfOnFireToKeepOthersWarm · 12/11/2023 22:04

SoloCat · 12/11/2023 22:01

I think humans are the ones creating more carbon footprint than cats and dogs…

I think you may have missed the point - I'm fairly sure Ballsbaill wasn't blaming the dogs and cats themselves.

Screamingabdabz · 12/11/2023 22:06

Fireworks aren’t all the time. But cats still crap everywhere and kill birds for sport, and entitled dog owners continue their own special brand of annoying world domination. Nothing stops the pet owners thinking the world revolves around them and their animals. 🙄

ShirleyPhallus · 12/11/2023 22:06

TreadLight · 12/11/2023 21:58

Modern day puritans wanting to ban anything that other people find fun!

Do you find torturing animals fun?

Houseplanter · 12/11/2023 22:08

I don't see how loud bangs are 'fun'.

rubydoobydoo · 12/11/2023 22:08

I love fireworks and our cats aren't remotely bothered but I think they should be limited to organised displays only, or maybe require a licence with strict conditions to be able to set them off.

So many people with terrified animals - I heard of someone still trying to calm their elderly horse down a day after some particularly loud ones. And then there's the groups of yobs meeting up for "fireworks wars" and turning cities into actual war zones.

Someone in our town was setting professional grade ones off on Friday "for Remembrance Day" not seeing the irony in making the town sound like an a war zone and the affect this may be having on people who have survived war, not even on the right day either!

If it were just the crappy little ones we used to let off in the back garden when I was a kid then it wouldn't be so bad - they just all seem so much bigger and louder these days.

JaneyGee · 12/11/2023 22:09

I would definitely have stricter laws. Fireworks really get on my nerves. I swear I have misophobia, or whatever it’s called. I hate noise. Right now I can hear the screeching and exploding of souped up cars, with those stupid exhausts that crackle and bang. They drive me insane.

Missingmyusername · 12/11/2023 22:11

HeavenCANTwait · 12/11/2023 21:43

It's Diwali today

Yeah and?
We sell gun powder (pretty much) to the public, to do with as they see fit. Let’s face it most people aren’t that bright so inevitably people get injured. More strain on NHS.
Government must make millions or they’d ban them!
Then it’ll be back to cost of living 🤔🙄

JanewaysBun · 12/11/2023 22:16

I love fireworks but would much prefer silent ones to be used exclusively, does anyone enjoy the loud bangs??? I took my kids to a show and the rockets were very loud, I'm sure in the 90s they were much quieter?

43ontherocksporfavor · 12/11/2023 22:19

Dogs and cats bring pleasure and companionship all year round. A split second explosion of colour can hardly be compared.

Pokinganose · 12/11/2023 22:20

I can see both sides but as a tip for pet owners you can buy pet sized weighted blankets which are meant to help with anxiety and fireworks if that's any help to anyone on here.

dumpkin · 12/11/2023 22:21

Dogs and cats bring pleasure and companionship all year round. A split second explosion of colour can hardly be compared.

i think the comparison was the damage to the environment?

Don’t cats kill 50 million birds a year? I have a cat by the way & a dog.

CherryMyBrandy · 12/11/2023 22:22

I am currently very unwell. I can't get out much certainly not to an organised display I couldn't cope with the cold and standing around. One small bit of joy in a pretty depressing, small life, was looking out my window at my neighbour's firework display a couple of weeks ago and hearing their children shriek and laugh.

And yes I have a cat also. She's scared of fireworks.....and thunderstorms, and the hoover, and going to the vet, and tinfoil, and cars that drive by too loudly, and drilling or other loud DIY noise, and anyone other than us coming into the house. Sure there a few I missed! Should we ban all of that? No, we continue as normal and reassure and ensure she has safe cosy places to "hide" if she needs to. And I don't assume that the world revolves around me and my cat (or child for that matter).

Coldia · 12/11/2023 22:23

Agree that banning pets would have a more beneficial on the environment than banning fireworks.

But really I think that posts on SM about fireworks should be banned.

NeverForgetYourDreams · 12/11/2023 22:29

Cut off for Diwali. Chinese new year. New Year’s Eve. All 1am. Have to suck it up. I love fireworks. I’m too mean to buy myself so enjoy watching others displays

strawberriesarenot · 12/11/2023 22:30

Ballsbaill · 12/11/2023 21:54

Harmful to the environment...is that a joke?

Pet food is responsible for a massive percentage of the global carbon foot print.

One pet cat generates an average of 310kg of CO2e per year. This is the equivalent of a 12 hour drive. There are 11 million cats in the UK. So multiply rhe 310kg by 11 million.

An area double the size of the UK is used to produce dry pet food for cats and dogs each year, a study shows.

If you care about the environment you wouldn't keep a cat or dog.

Edited

Ok, what about my neighbour's little boy who has autism + other problems? He is beside himself with stress and overstimulation from the noise. He rocks and tears at things, sometimes his own skin.
His carbon footprint is probably huge, and of course there are too many people on the planet with terrible environmental impact.
But no home fireworks and silent fireworks would change his life this time of year.

Lifeinlists · 12/11/2023 22:31

Come to Birmingham where fireworks are set off pretty much every night of the year and often at midnight to 2 am. October/ November is possibly peak explosives time (they don't sound like your average roman candle for sure).

I don't have a dog or a cat but I am pretty fed up with the noise myself. I used to be live and let live about fireworks but I'm now firmly in the only at organised displays camp. Can't see it happening though, as the present laws aren't enforced.

Tagyoureit · 12/11/2023 22:32

Nope, far more offended by pets crapping and barking everywhere!

43ontherocksporfavor · 12/11/2023 22:32

Aside from the pets v fireworks argument, what about the danger of allowing the public to buy gunpowder ? The injuries and burns and all for what? A few seconds of gratification!