I do 90% of household duties, washing, cooking, shopping, haircuts, taxiing etc and partner cuts the grass. Had a ding dong this morning that's still ongoing because the toilet was blocked and I asked him to use the unblocker but he was on his way to help cut his mum's tree branches down and while doing the unblocking it said me and dcs were useless f***s. So basically him cutting his mum's trees is fine and dandy but ask him to unblock the toilet and all hell breaks loose. He also cuts his mum's ndn grass for them amongst other things (gets paid of course). He's just said in front of his mother that he's not going to help anyone anymore as I have a problem with it. Is it too much to ask to him to put his own house first? And yes I could've unblocked the toilet, he even said about putting the toilet paper in a bin which I find repellent.