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Condoms as contraception

58 replies

ldanse · 05/11/2023 22:05

Anyone here use only condoms as your form of contraception?

I was on the implant for a year and experienced nothing but anxiety & panic attacks so I got it removed & fell pregnant

I’m now 12 weeks pp & I’ve been on the pill the last 8 weeks it was okay until 2 weeks ago I was convinced I was pregnant I had every single symptom , including morning sickness , I was SO nauseous to the point I was running to the toilet to be sick but wouldn’t actually be sick. I was also waking up out of my sleep with nausea. Anxiety also came at me strong. - I read nausea is actually common on the pill

I forgot to take my pill yesterday & today , tonight I realised I didn’t feel one bit nauseous today which is strange , the past 2 weeks I’ve been so nauseous

so really I would love to just be on nothing , condoms sound a dream because it can’t affect the hormones , but how reliable is it?

if I was using them I would probably still get DH to pull out to be sure ?

I'm not sure what to do, should I just stop the pill and start using condoms or am i taking a chance ? Or are condoms just the same 99% effectiveness as the pill etc

OP posts:
Fupoffyagrasshole · 06/11/2023 13:26

been using just condoms for 15 years and never had any issues - stopped using them both times i wanted to get pregnant and my husband will get the snip after this baby is born!

I had the worst anxiety, weight gain, migraines, bleeding with all forms of hormonal birth control - i will never take any again

ThisIsntThe80sPat · 07/11/2023 21:43

I tried three different pills and had problems with all three. So DH and I used condoms for 10 years. No pregnancies. We came off to conceive our two boys and we'll be using them again (when I get my sex drive back 😅) until DH gets the snip next summer.

Fiery30 · 07/11/2023 21:51

Used condoms for years and none of my partners pulled out during climax. You just have to make sure your partner pulls out correctly after.

Notimeforaname · 07/11/2023 21:54

I'm late 30s. Never been pregnant, only ever used condoms. Have never been on any type of pill or implant.

yhiksur · 08/11/2023 12:33

Thanks everyone for letting me know, the sound promising if used correctly, I've been on the pill now 3 days and the nausea is completely gone... interesting & I've been using condoms ever since.. I'm trusting 🤞🏼

yhiksur · 08/11/2023 12:33

off the pill*

SOBplus · 08/11/2023 12:36

Only condoms for 30+ years - no issues, no problems, no hormones, no unplanned children

Drayne · 08/11/2023 12:47

In my experience the problems with condoms are mostly about misuse, including thinking it’s ok just once and not bothering. Obviously it can fail if it splits though. I think it’s brilliant not being on hormonal contraception because my libido is strongly linked to my natural cycle.

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