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To put kids first?

15 replies

Fuzzyduck31 · 05/11/2023 01:29

Friend (35m) is withholding any communication from me because I have agreed to go to DS school run firework display tomorrow over his own family-run display. His argument is I should always go to his family's display as it is important to his family, my argument is that I would do whatever makes my DS ha

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MrsTerryPratchett · 05/11/2023 01:30

Sorry this is just a male friend? Not your partner or anything?

Tell him to fuck off.

Startrekkeruniverse · 05/11/2023 01:30

Friend sounds like a twat.

Catsmere · 05/11/2023 02:04

So his family is supposed to be more important to you than your own?

Some friend he is. Self-centred twerp.

MintJulia · 05/11/2023 03:59

You put your child first. He chooses where he wants to be. If he has children, he needs to be with them. His call.

Definitely not your problem.

But in generally I'd steer clear of this 'friend'. He sounds like an arrogant bully.

WandaWonder · 05/11/2023 04:54

So what are you asking? If this is real what bit can't you comprehend

He is a twat, you stay friends with a twat he will remain a twat

KateyCuckoo · 05/11/2023 05:01

What's this crap new trend of identifying people with (42F) shite? Yet people still drip actual relevant information (or even finish their OPs!).

Wavescrashingonthebeach · 05/11/2023 05:04

"Withholding any communication from me"
Wtf
Tell him to stick his communication.
Why do people even engage with this shit he's clearly a wanker so fuck the friendship off

dragonseal · 05/11/2023 05:07

Ignore your friend (35m)

Catsmere · 05/11/2023 05:07

KateyCuckoo · 05/11/2023 05:01

What's this crap new trend of identifying people with (42F) shite? Yet people still drip actual relevant information (or even finish their OPs!).

The 42F stuff is a Reddit import.

KateyCuckoo · 05/11/2023 05:16

Catsmere · 05/11/2023 05:07

The 42F stuff is a Reddit import.

Ah well reddit can keep it! It's awful.

Catsmere · 05/11/2023 05:19

KateyCuckoo · 05/11/2023 05:16

Ah well reddit can keep it! It's awful.

Totally agree!

KillerTomato7 · 05/11/2023 06:57

I'm not sure how anyone would expect a parent to put an adult friend's needs over those of their own child.

lunar1 · 05/11/2023 07:00

Think I'd be grateful he was withholding communication!

Strawberryfieldsforeverrr · 05/11/2023 07:37

Tell 35m to fuck off and put your sons happiness first. Simple really.

Fuzzyduck31 · 05/11/2023 07:46

KateyCuckoo · 05/11/2023 05:01

What's this crap new trend of identifying people with (42F) shite? Yet people still drip actual relevant information (or even finish their OPs!).

Sorry sent this quite late and meant the last word to be 'happy'.

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