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To ask to go or not to?

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Autiebibliophile · 04/11/2023 08:14

Day out shopping/cocktails/lunch. It was arranged with a group of women- 2 I'm close to, 2 I know well and the others i know but not well. The two I'm close to cancelled and now one who I know well has cancelled. So it's a group of women who are all close but I only really know 1 of them. She's someone I normally see in a group but don't message/meet without the group. I would lose train fare (£30) but I'll save the food/drink money if I don't go. Should I go?

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Aurasauras · 04/11/2023 08:14

Go, be friendly and have a great time

clpsmum · 04/11/2023 08:15

Go you might make new friends!

DustyLee123 · 04/11/2023 08:32

Yep, go. Often the days out we don’t want to go on can be good.

MamaBear38 · 04/11/2023 09:03

Absolutely go! I’m sure you’ll have a lovely time and it’ll be a nice chance to build those friendships x

OrigamiOwl · 04/11/2023 09:20

I'd go...you still know one person and you have a chance to meet some new people.

Climbingthehillfast · 04/11/2023 09:22

Go! It might be cool still and they’ll appreciate you going

windypumpkin · 04/11/2023 09:24

Be bold. Go :)

WithIcePlease · 04/11/2023 09:24

I'd go

Autiebibliophile · 04/11/2023 11:08

Thank you at the train station now!!

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SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 04/11/2023 11:12

Have a fab time, then come back and tell us how it went. And what you bought!

Autiebibliophile · 04/11/2023 21:22

Had a lovely time. Lots of cocktaills and food and hopefully I'll be included next time 😊

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MamaBear38 · 04/11/2023 21:45

Well done OP! That’s such a big step and a huge achievement. Well done for stepping out of your comfort zone xx

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