Ok not really an AIBU but I'm looking for ideas.
STBexDH left me in April 2021. I didn't have a pot to piss in, an 18mo to support alone and literally no idea of how I was going to sort this. I worked PT, his parents as childcare. This stopped.
Since then - DD is with a brilliant childminder, I now work full time and support us both. We have a lovely home, nice garden, I've bought a new (to me) luxury car, we've been on holidays etc and essentially are doing great. This is all relevant as ex was financially abusive and so I could never have dreamed of achieving all of this on my own.
On top of that - I saved for the divorce. On my own. Luckily no solicitor fees etc, simple sole application divorce at £600 but even so, I did it on my own.
SO - we are finalising in the new year and my god do I need to celebrate. What can I do?! I'm not a spa kind of person, so nothing like that. Im thinking of a couple of nights abroad alone but not 100% on this idea. Not a 'party', but just something to do to celebrate that I've done it all on my own and it's finally over. Suggestions welcome!