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To think whether or not you ‘bounce back’ after pregnancy is down to luck

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MsBump31 · 31/10/2023 19:58

I keep seeing these Instagram posts of women working out throughout their pregnancy who say “I’m not lucky for bouncing back - I worked hard”.

AIBU to think it IS actually purely down to luck?

I know women who were hospitalised for the entire of their pregnancies with morning sickness - I had to bed rest and was told to eat more by the doctors as I kept fainting, so I packed on more weight.

Not everyone can work out during pregnancy - in fact a lot of women can’t - and to imply the reason their figure is so great afterwards because “they worked hard” is just so ableist. Women are hospitalised for all sorts of conditions in pregnancy, it’s a difficult time for many.

You’re very, very lucky if you have a pregnancy that allows you to still function, let alone one that allows you the energy to keep up workouts IMO.

So yes, it’s down to luck.

OP posts:
Badgerandfox227 · 01/11/2023 08:34

In my case I bounced back to being a bit overweight after pregnancy. I’d had awful
morning sickness in the first trimester and then looked after my health better for the sake of my baby. So I’d lost about 2stone, but sadly bounced back and put it back on 😫

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