I know its petty, i know its being unreasonable, but FFS. Anyone with small children will know where i am coming from im sure. He needed to pop out and see a friend. DD wanted him to do planting with her, i ended up having to do it, which is fine, but DD wanted Daddy. HE thinks i am being unreasonable by moaning, but why cannot he understand that this is a big deal, he has been gone nearly three hours, not at the pub by the way, its just that, i have forgotten what it is like to have the freedom to just take myself off somewhere, wonder around the shops etc, even if i do do that, i have to rush back. Now dinner will be late - im