I do most of the housework as I work less hours than DH. I do the cooking/cleanup/laundry/kids admin. He agreed to do the dishwasher, the bins and hoovering.
When I ask him to give me a hand with the kitchen before he starts work (i.e. his side of the deal, help load dishwasher or clear away dishes), or run the hoover round, he huffs at me.
Very annoying. I try and ignore but end up reacting to it!