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Why are cats allowed to be a pain in the arse??

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sofaprincess · 22/10/2023 11:15

We recently moved into a new house and we have a dog. She is quite a large dog and I have spent a huge amount of time training her and trying to ensure she is well behaved out of the house and friendly or indifferent (depending on the situation) with other people and dogs. I am always conscious that people might not like dogs and we steer clear of people in the street and always clear up her mess. She loves spending time in the garden and that is supposed to be her safe space.

My issue is this - my husband is picking cat poo up regularly from our front garden and has identified the culprit, but really what can we do (rhetorical)? But worse than that, a different cat likes to come and sunbathe in my garden (on the shed roof or other high up places) which causes my dog to bark continuously until I go out and lure her back inside. I’m starting to feel a bit fed up with nuisance cats - we should be able to enjoy our outside space without dealing with bloody cat issues……right?

YANBU - cats are are pain in the arse and they should be regulated in the same way as dogs are (ie owners need to ensure they have them under control)

YABU - cats will be cats and they should be allowed to free roam and sunbathe/shit where they like

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enchantedsquirrelwood · 23/10/2023 11:49

I'm not a particular cat fan. But they don't have a detrimental effect on my quality of life. The odd bit of poo is annoying but that's as far as it goes. Toxoplasmosis is an issue but if you like/do gardening, you wear gloves. Fox poo is bad as well and you can't avoid that.

Cats don't kill humans, they don't rush up to complete strangers and jump up at them or lick their face, or knock them over, or bite them, they don't knock people off their bikes, and they don't create mess all over parks. And they don't get taken into every shop and cafe. I know which animal is the much bigger issue.

Much like drivers and cyclists, people need to get a sense of proportion and concentrate their efforts where the damage is caused.

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