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To think this RE war?

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Candleyankee · 21/10/2023 18:03

Friends and I were having drinks last night, ended up talking at one point about current events. At one point I said I truly believe that if all the world leaders were women, we would not resort to war and violent conflicts in the same way the world does now.

A friend said that was ridiculous and while I admit that international politics is extremely more complicated than I have the knowledge to understand, I really don’t believe that as women we would ever resort to bombing countries, killing other people’s innocent children, drafting people’s sons to fight wars they have no say in just because another leader told us we couldn’t have their land/oil/etc.

and yes, I know we have had women in history who have resorted to violence for example Margaret Thatcher deploying troops to the Faulklands but they were women playing a game in which most of the players were men.

AIBU to think that if ALL world leaders were women, there would be significantly less violent conflicts between countries?

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ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 07/02/2024 16:10

CuttingMeOpenthenHealingMeFine · 07/02/2024 16:04

It’s really not that simple and I just don’t buy into the whole ‘there would never be any problems in the world if women were in charge’ crap because all you need to do is be around groups of young girls, teenage girls or even groups of grown women to know how petty and horrible they can be.

The issues going on in the world right now are based on long standing and complex problems and nothing to do with women vs men.

Show me one woman in the 20th or 21st century who started a war. Then list the men.

WW1
Spanish Civil War
WW2
Korea
Vietnam
Northern Ireland
Gulf War
Balkan war
Iraq
Afghanistan
Ukraine

A teenage girl is hardly like to be in charge of a country. And as 25 years as a secondary teacher l found teenage girls lovely. I also found colleagues and other woman lovely, neither petty or horrible.

The only woman to start a war in recent times is Thatch.

LWSnow · 07/02/2024 16:11

I think if women were in charge there would be no wars but there would be a lot of rules . Probably for the best

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 07/02/2024 16:12

LWSnow · 07/02/2024 16:11

I think if women were in charge there would be no wars but there would be a lot of rules . Probably for the best

I’d quite like that!

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