To be worried that he hasn’t read my message

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Lulu1997 · 16/10/2023 00:34

I replied to my DPs message 9 hours ago and he still hasn’t read it. We don’t live together but we do keep in contact regularly and I’ve not seen him this weekend so we were catching up via text message then all of a sudden he stopped responding and still hasn’t opened the message. Aibu to be worried?

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strawberryblue · 16/10/2023 00:34

Why don't you
Call him ?

Cowlover89 · 16/10/2023 00:35

Just call him

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Lulu1997 · 16/10/2023 00:36

Sorry forgot to put in OP. I did try and call but it’s just ringing out

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ConnieTucker · 16/10/2023 00:39

Could he not be out with friends?

TurnerP · 16/10/2023 00:40

Fallen asleep while charging phone hopefully

strawberryblue · 16/10/2023 00:40

He could have left his phone somewhere or fallen asleep? Does he live alone?

HerMammy · 16/10/2023 00:42

Do you know his plans for the day? maybe call a friend who can check on him?

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Lulu1997 · 16/10/2023 00:46

He does live alone. I’m worried as a couple of weeks ago he told me he was feeling quite down and anxious and he says he always does at this time of the year. I’m not sure what he had planned for today as that was what I was messaging him to ask but he usually messages me when he’s out if I’m not seeing him, so it’s quite unusual that he hasn’t got back to me

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Lulu1997 · 16/10/2023 00:48

He did go out Saturday night though so maybe he is just sleeping it off hopefully

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IHateLegDay · 16/10/2023 00:49

Go over to his place in the morning if you're worried. I hope he's ok

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