Would you have assumed the date was off?

[ChristySept]

I had tentative plans with my boyfriend for today. We spoke about them on Fri when we last saw each other but no firm arrangements were made.

I messaged him last night and didn’t get an answer. I also rang him this morning but he didn’t pick up. He didn’t return my call and I heard nothing from him until 3.30 when he asked what time I was coming over. It turns out he went out with his friends but didn’t think to drop me even a quick text.

He is a bit annoyed with me that I’ve made alternative plans. AIBU?

Plans for today or this evening?

Plans to see each other at some point today - nothing firm.

He's been out with his mates and took it for granted he could summon you for a booty call?

Might make him think twice taking you for granted next time. Like you've got nothing better to do than wait around for him.

If he wants to see you he can make firm plans.

Totally his fault for not replying.

He's kept you on the back burner and now he's annoyed with you!

Completely his fault. He obviously thought you'd sit around and wait for him. Good for you that you're not going to do that!

Just say « I’ve made other plans now, I need more notice next time. »

This, don't go round. BTW going over to his is not a date.