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To ask if we can please try to have Palestine and Israel thread where we acknowledge how awful it is for everyone, but try not to throw shit at each other?

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theotherfossilsister · 07/10/2023 19:48

Please

From someone who does have 'skin in the game.'

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Sometimeswinning · 08/10/2023 11:39

fuckssaaaaake · 08/10/2023 11:10

It's quite a big deal, shame you don't think it's worth discussing

It is worth discussing but you’ve got people suddenly declaring where the blame is, this is where it went wrong, it’s Britains fault etc. This has been going on for so long and yet the only reason some are getting involved is to call anyone they can anti-Semitic or say go back to 1920 it’s the fault of the British!

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/10/2023 11:48

Very illuminating to see the usual insistence that the holocaust shouldn't be mentioned in terms of current events, that even to do so is bigoted and so on

Compare that to what would happen if anyone dared to suggest that mentioning slavery was inappropriate in discussing the experiences of people of colour, and what's really going on here is immediately apparent

natura · 08/10/2023 12:18

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/10/2023 11:53

No, Not joking. Wrote my Master's dissertation on the challenges of impartiality in NGOs, and am very familiar with mistakes that such organisations have made through history.

Doesn't erase the commitment they have to an incredibly difficult status to maintain, nor does it mean that partisan charities are a better option to donate to if someone's seeking a 'neutral' party to support.

Have you read the article you linked to, or just the headline?

Pugdogmom · 08/10/2023 12:24

This in a nutshell!

MrsSkylerWhite · 08/10/2023 12:26

Poppysmom22 · Yesterday 19:53
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It's hard to believe that in this day and age we are still doing this to each other

Religion , don’t you just love it?!

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/10/2023 12:27

Yes of course I've read it, Natura; I wouldn't have linked it if I hadn't

FWIW I can agree about the challenges in the commitment they claim, also that neutrality can be hard to find. I just don't happen to believe that the Red Cross strives very strongly towards it

Pugdogmom · 08/10/2023 12:28

Pugdogmom · 08/10/2023 12:24

This in a nutshell!

Sorry, was supposed to be quoting a post and went wrong 😬

ConcreteUnderpants · 08/10/2023 12:44

The amount of disguised and barely disguised anti-demotion on this thread is appalling.

You can still criticise Israel and not Jews, you know.

But then again where are people shouting to protect the only democracy in the Middle East that neighbouring countries have sworn to destroy? What other country should have to protect itself like this all the time?

Willyoujustbequiet · 08/10/2023 12:44

Hummingbird233 · 07/10/2023 19:55

If any other country attacked another, people would be calling that country out.

Palestinians attack Israel, killing and hurting mass people - "it's sad on both sides".

WTF. Let's call this as it is. It's atrocious that Hamas, a terrorist organisation, gets to bomb civilians and hide behind a long standing conflict. What they've done is awful.

This

There is absolutely no justification for what Hamas did yesterday. They are barbaric murdering scum.

They have betrayed their own people.
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TruckDiver · 08/10/2023 13:18

Angrycat2768 · 08/10/2023 10:50

I don't think you can. That is the problem. Even if Israel agreed to a two state soluion and agreed to a Palestinian free state ( unlikely) there are still countries that dont recognise Israels right to exist. Hamas is in control of Gaza. They will continue to attack Israel because it exists and Israel will continue to attack Palestine in retaliation under the guise of attacking Hamas.

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Another option is for Israel to annexe the occupied territories fully, make them a normal part of Israel and the inhabitants full citizens of Israel with the same rights as anyone else. Of course they would have no justification under international law for this, but it's not like they have any justification for the occupation in the first place anyway.

The problem with this is that Israel wants to remain a democratic jewish state, and it can only do that as long as it has a majority of jewish citizens. Accommodating huge numbers of muslim Palestinians (with a higher average birthrate) would blow that out of the water.

The only solution I can see working is a two state solution with sufficient input from the international community to prevent the new state from any aggression towards Israel. But Israel won't go for that, particularly under its current government. The situation as it is suits them just fine.

EasternStandard · 08/10/2023 13:23

It’s frustrating mn keep deleting these threads. The other one just got deleted

It’s major news and all outlets are discussing it

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 13:35

It's a very difficult conversation to have. "Free Palestinine" has become trendy.

Most people have almost no understanding of the full facts. I've got a degree in Theology with a specialisation in ancient Israel and a Masters degree in Middle Eastern history.

Most people approach it with 2% of the knowledge and try and apply western values to people who do not share those values.

Add to that a worrying under current of antisemitism amongst the left (I'm left wing but despair of these people).

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 13:36

Add to that I'm also an Iraqi Jew! But a few people read a thread on Facebook and here we are

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/10/2023 13:46

Most people approach it with 2% of the knowledge and try and apply western values to people who do not share those values

Worse still they're often the very ones who claim that absolutely everything is the fault of the west
Strange to apply western values when it suits and them blame exactly those for it all, but there you go

Am I allowed to ask what happened with the other thread? It was noticeable that some of the more extreme antisemites had started to congregate on there, but HQ doesn't often delete for this so I just wondered

mollyfolk · 08/10/2023 13:51

You can critique the Israeli authorities and not be anti the Jewish people just like you can criticise Hamas and not be anti Muslim. I used to work with an NGO that had links with an organization in Israel that was mostly Jewish Israelis and they considered the situation apartheid. In fact there are many Israeli human rights organizations, politicians, academics, journalists and ordinary citizens who speak out about their government’s treatment of the occupation of Palestine.

The situation seems impossible now but I do believe peace is possible. 🙏🏽 The day before the Good Friday agreement was signed, something like 80% of people polled in northern Irish didn’t believe peace was possible. Now they live in a situation of imperfect peace. I’m not saying the two situations are the same but I do think that there are many parallels.

SomeCatFromJapan · 08/10/2023 13:51

@Puzzledandpissedoff nothing specific that I saw beyond what you noted, and I was following it quite closely so I'm not sure what happened there.

SomeCatFromJapan · 08/10/2023 13:54

I just had a look at the comments on the final picture of Shani Louk's instagram page. Many devastated comments and condolences from women in Iran and Turkey.

Boomboom22 · 08/10/2023 14:07

The holocaust is very very relevant. Its why Israel is so defensive to begin with and partly why the west will never tell Israel they are wrong for their own terrorism against Palestine.

AhNowTed · 08/10/2023 14:14

mollyfolk · 08/10/2023 13:51

You can critique the Israeli authorities and not be anti the Jewish people just like you can criticise Hamas and not be anti Muslim. I used to work with an NGO that had links with an organization in Israel that was mostly Jewish Israelis and they considered the situation apartheid. In fact there are many Israeli human rights organizations, politicians, academics, journalists and ordinary citizens who speak out about their government’s treatment of the occupation of Palestine.

The situation seems impossible now but I do believe peace is possible. 🙏🏽 The day before the Good Friday agreement was signed, something like 80% of people polled in northern Irish didn’t believe peace was possible. Now they live in a situation of imperfect peace. I’m not saying the two situations are the same but I do think that there are many parallels.

There are indeed parallels.

The troubles started out in the late 60s as a civil rights movement, against the inequality, discrimination and lack of representation suffered by Catholics.

There's strong pro-Palestinian feeling in Ireland as a result.

AhNowTed · 08/10/2023 14:16

Boomboom22 · 08/10/2023 14:07

The holocaust is very very relevant. Its why Israel is so defensive to begin with and partly why the west will never tell Israel they are wrong for their own terrorism against Palestine.

Add to that its strategic position in the Middle East and the Jewish vote in America.

Boomboom22 · 08/10/2023 14:19

Yes of course basically they are our ally and technologically capable etc. Real politik again.

Angrycat2768 · 08/10/2023 14:19

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 13:35

It's a very difficult conversation to have. "Free Palestinine" has become trendy.

Most people have almost no understanding of the full facts. I've got a degree in Theology with a specialisation in ancient Israel and a Masters degree in Middle Eastern history.

Most people approach it with 2% of the knowledge and try and apply western values to people who do not share those values.

Add to that a worrying under current of antisemitism amongst the left (I'm left wing but despair of these people).

I agree. A lot of it is kneejerk anti Western sentiment and anti Americanism. It is a very simplistic 'An enemy of my enemy is my friend' where anything America do is automatically evil( while they themselves are often very wealthy, so have benefitted from capitalist America and living under a Western democracy). They don't have any answers to the problems, which is why they go back to 1948 and blame the British, which is completely pointless, because we are in 2023, not 1947.

duchiebun · 08/10/2023 14:22

while they themselves are often very wealthy, so have benefitted from capitalist America and living under a Western democracy).
exactly

Martin83 · 08/10/2023 14:25

Puzzledandpissedoff · 08/10/2023 13:46

Most people approach it with 2% of the knowledge and try and apply western values to people who do not share those values

Worse still they're often the very ones who claim that absolutely everything is the fault of the west
Strange to apply western values when it suits and them blame exactly those for it all, but there you go

Am I allowed to ask what happened with the other thread? It was noticeable that some of the more extreme antisemites had started to congregate on there, but HQ doesn't often delete for this so I just wondered

I absolutely agree with you. You can not win using western values. Taliban was able to defeat US army in sandals with Kalashnikovs.

So the solution would need to be rather radical complete distraction of Hamas. If they are "democratically" elected terrorist organisation in Gaza then it means war with Gaza.

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