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I hate when companies use ‘family’ to mean only if you have children

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Newchangename · 04/10/2023 10:25

I hate it when people use ‘starting a family’ to mean having children. Or when places do ‘family tickets’ or ‘family passes’ and you need to have a child to qualify.

Why are DH and I less of a family because we choose not to have children? It’s hurtful to my friend who desperately tried to have children for years and couldn’t. She doesn’t need a reminder that her family is incomplete/ non- existent because they couldn’t

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musixa · 04/10/2023 17:32

NoMor · 04/10/2023 14:19

If you don't have children and aren't blood related you are not family according to the definition of the word. Most people will make the assumption that you are not related to your spouse.

So having children magically turns your spouse into 'family'?

No, not buying that.

Justhereforthebabynames · 05/10/2023 11:48

My DH is my DH. I'm not related to him and we do have children.

SalmonBelongInTheWater · 05/10/2023 14:20

musixa · 04/10/2023 17:32

So having children magically turns your spouse into 'family'?

No, not buying that.

In the eyes of the law, you're family if you're related by blood or you're married. Unmarried partners aren't family.

Otherwise, it really is about emotional ties. I consider my best friends to be my family, as well as my child and spouse. My blood siblings, I don't.

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