Me and my partner have been together 18 years. Have 3 kids (most recent baby 10 months old). We did go through a rough patch about 8 years ago, things haven’t been quite right since.
He has been at his current job a while now but recently, his relationship with his manager is getting me down. He is going for a promotion so he’s taken on more work and responsibilities but it is taking over his life.
he and his boss are constantly texting and he also calls her outside of work too. When he does this, he always goes outside for a walk or sits in the car to talk to her and is usually gone 1-2 hours. He says it’s because of his promotion etc but I just feel real uncomfortable about it. I also saw a few messages on his phone where he asked her to send a nude pic and she responded with ‘that’s all you want me for’ he responded with ‘you owe me’ and a laughing face. They also send love hearts to each other in text and one read ‘love you’. When I confronted him about then he said the nude pic one was a joke and the love hearts etc he sends to everyone. Am I being paranoid and over sensitive as tired with a young baby. I really need an outsiders perspective of possible please. I’m so lost. Thank you.