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Constant throat clearing, teeth sucking, sniffing and commenting

22 replies

RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:29

This cannot be normal. Why do people do it and what is it called? Can they be prosecuted?

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ilovesooty · 30/09/2023 23:30

Prosecuted? 🤣

Mummy08m · 30/09/2023 23:34

Haha yanbu. A former colleague of mine actually quit her (otherwise lovely, easy and relatively well paid) job because she shared a small office with a man who was like that, especially the throat clearing. It just drove her insane.

Thelnebriati · 30/09/2023 23:37

We'll give you an alibi. You were here all the time, we watched Strictly.

RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:47

Thelnebriati · 30/09/2023 23:37

We'll give you an alibi. You were here all the time, we watched Strictly.

😂

THANK YOU

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RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:48

Mummy08m · 30/09/2023 23:34

Haha yanbu. A former colleague of mine actually quit her (otherwise lovely, easy and relatively well paid) job because she shared a small office with a man who was like that, especially the throat clearing. It just drove her insane.

Omg, I think we must be talking about the same person. They even do it on the phone and it is so loud, hurts my ear

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S910441 · 30/09/2023 23:50

All the same person?? Jeez.

RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:52

S910441 · 30/09/2023 23:50

All the same person?? Jeez.

YES

It can't be normal. What is this affliction?

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FlopsSake · 30/09/2023 23:52

Is it some sort of tic? I know what you mean its annoying when youve zoned in on that. Drives you potty!

Caro678 · 30/09/2023 23:53

Tics, probably, or Tourette’s. They probably can’t help it.

Frances0911 · 30/09/2023 23:53

People with Aspergers and OCD do this.

Or Tourettes.

I know someone who habitually throat clears and he has all three of these.

Greengrassohla · 30/09/2023 23:54

Oh dear god we have one of these at work! I have arranged my days in the office specifically to avoid him.

RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:57

Caro678 · 30/09/2023 23:53

Tics, probably, or Tourette’s. They probably can’t help it.

They didn't use to do this

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Caro678 · 30/09/2023 23:58

It can get worse over time, or flare up with stress etc.(Tourette’s)

RadishesForYou · 30/09/2023 23:58

Greengrassohla · 30/09/2023 23:54

Oh dear god we have one of these at work! I have arranged my days in the office specifically to avoid him.

It's hard, isn't it... no matter how patient and understanding you try to be it's a constant irritation

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Caro678 · 01/10/2023 00:07

Do you think you could have misophonia?

RadishesForYou · 01/10/2023 00:09

Caro678 · 01/10/2023 00:07

Do you think you could have misophonia?

That is one possibility but I don't have it with anyone else. This person is excessive in terms of constantly emitting noise.

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MaryJanesonabreak · 01/10/2023 00:09

Asperger’s, drives me bonkers.

Greengrassohla · 01/10/2023 00:54

Has anyone ever tried speaking to the person who does this? Has it helped?

I don’t have misophonia - this person drives everyone crazy, but none of us ever say anything.

RadishesForYou · 01/10/2023 00:57

Greengrassohla · 01/10/2023 00:54

Has anyone ever tried speaking to the person who does this? Has it helped?

I don’t have misophonia - this person drives everyone crazy, but none of us ever say anything.

I have twice suggested they see a doctor re. the throat issue as it sounded as though they probably needed medical help, what if it was an underlying issue. But was dismissed as if I was joking.

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spitefulandbadgrammar · 01/10/2023 01:04

Noise-cancelling headphones. Or new job/DH, depending on who it is emitting all these noises.

Titsywoo · 01/10/2023 01:07

I often clear my throat quite a bit without realising I am doing it. It's down to issues with acid reflux. My gastroenterologist points it out every time I see him 😄

@MaryJanesonabreak what are you on about?

crumblingschools · 01/10/2023 01:10

I used to work with someone who used to sing the first line of a song on repeat, drove me nuts

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