To wear white at wedding

[Kliopgh]

Have asked bride and she said it’s ok…

Asking the bride is such a mistake. Unless she's super confident, she has to say that it's fine-whatever she thinks.

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Agree.

No. Just no. I can't believe you even need to ask.

……. because there are not any other colours available, so I have to dress as the bride

Well its not because another one is the bride should only wear white of she's a virgin, but no one sticks to that either

@Kliopgh reach out to both mother in laws, any sisters, any female relatives in fact EVERYONE invited and ask them. You're not going to do that. It's one day of your life, you don't need to be wearing white.

It's very important to other people that One woman is wearing White.

I wore cream and black, because my BF had said I looked hot in it and I knew it wasn't White. I was judged harshly. If you want to try and compete to be the main character go ahead, but don't underestimate how shit you will be made to feel if people take offense.
It's not worth it.

This just made me think of a celebrity wedding in my home country. The bride and the groom made it mandatory for the guests to dress in all white. The bride and the groom both wore pink.

No way. That’s taking the fucking piss and you know it.

And btw … I’ve been married 15 years today. I would have not been impressed and found you highly disrespectful if you’d have turned up to my wedding in white … and so would my husband, not to mention our wedding guests.

Show some respect and choose another colour and save the white dress for yourself on your special day.

This is so true.

A wedding I went to recently the MOG had asked future DIL if it was OK to wear white to the wedding.

She of course said "yes" and the mil did .

You could hear a pin drop when the mil entered the church in her plain white dress,seconds before the bride entered.

Probably too polite to say no.

Can I ask why you feel the need to wear white on this day? I don't consider myself precious about things, but WHY? When you know white is for the bride? I don't get it.

If the bride said OK then I guess if you literally could not find anything else in any colour then go for it.

Prepare for an uncomfortable day though.

Not read any replies or even your post, just the heading. Yes you’re being unreasonable.

Even if the bride doesn't care, other guests will absolutely clock on. Could get awkward

Tbf, I don’t think the OP should wear white to this wedding either, but I have to be honest and no man I have EVER met would give a single shit about this.

Did she have to say yes?

Disclaimer I've worn a cream suit to a wedding but with navy accessories but a loooooong way from the immediate wedding party. I've also worn black with shocking pink shoes and hat, but again a looooong way from the actual party,

You'd have to be a tit to do this.

No it's not ok.
The bride might have said it's ok as she felt uncomfortable telling you what you could wear (I would probably do this!) but we all know del down that anyone who wears white to a. Wedding is a dick.
Save your white dress for another occasion and pick for the MANY of different options!!!

Is your outfit still brought up now? How long ago was the wedding?

Just wear any other colour or any other shade than white. Bizarre

No I'm hundreds of miles and 5 years away now.
I wouldn't be surprised if I'm still brought up though.
The disapproval was so real I've never felt anything like it.

It wasn't a long cream dress it was knee length and the black jacket was thigh length.
I've never hugged a jacket around myself so tightly.
OP just don't do it it's really just not worth it. I don't think I'd even risk wearing yellow now.