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To think the world would be a better place without sex/sexual feelings

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Birdsonawireoopthere · 21/09/2023 13:19

Obviously they’d be a different way of making babies etc
Maybe it’s just menopausal me who has no interest in sex currently, but even when younger, although I enjoyed it at times, it’s often all about men. I fancied men and imagined kissing them etc and being in love with them, but didn’t necessarily think about sex-maybe that’s weird and just me?
Just imagine the world could be a better place, men would be so much kinder, no rape/sexual assault, no pedophiles (sp) no more horrible porn on the internet
So much grubbiness would be gone

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C1N1C · 21/09/2023 18:11

You're welcome to live my marriage if you feel that way!

YouJustDoYou · 21/09/2023 18:16

I've never had an ounce of a sex drive, no "urges" like they tell you about in school, nothing. Am 40 now, and at times over the years I've wondered what it would be like to want/need sex, it's very freeing in many ways, but constraining in the sense that men do need sex, and I have a husband so obviously, it's something he needs or we couldn't stay together. If we weren't together I'd never bother. I see how a sex drive drives people to crazy decisions sometimes, and can also make people miserable when they can't satiate it. I'm mostly glad to have never had one, but I do wonder that ot must feel nice to "satisfy that itch", iykwim?

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