Invasion

[crazypple]

AIBU?

So I just found out that partners mother is got his Apple ID on her phone which means she's been reading our personal messages and he is being defensive about it. He said he's got 2 Apple account but I don't trust him because he tells lies

I am so angry and feel violated and invaded and betrayed.

Why would his mother be interested in reading your messages and why would he lie about it? If he’s a liar why are you with him?

Just confirm that no children are involved in this “relationship” and I’ll bid my farewell

Eeewwww mummy's boy. Huge reg flag. Dump and move on. Believe me he will never ever put you first. (sadly speaking from experience)

He lies, you don't trust him, his mother's overstepping, get rid.

He said he gave his old phone to his mum and I am like yes but you creat her a new ID you don't leave your ID on your mothers phone

I think the sisters have been reading it too because the mother is not that good with tech and they all help her with her phone. Can you imagine - they have probably been reading our private conversations even the ones that I thought were super confidential just btw us as I do not want them to know certain things because they are extremely jealous of me

This is unbelievable and disgusting and I am trying hard to be calm because I am going to have to have a word with his mother and ask her why she thinks it is right for her to be reading our messages and even if it was left on the phone given to her, she could have have called his attention to it and have it removed. Stupid foolish idiots 😡