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Daughter filthy at nursery

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Cannyapper · 19/09/2023 22:04

I love our nursery in lots of ways. My LO comes home absolutely filthy though- like, old, caked, glue like snot plastered across her face, clothes caked in mud, tops ruined with paint etc etc. I don't want to complain, but also don't like the thought that no-one has wiped her nose all day! She has a load of spare clothes and bibs there too?! Basically, I don't want to sound precious and ruin the relationship with the nursery. Equally, does it show a lack of care? For context, I know they'll get dirty and I don't care about clothes getting really dirty- just, don't like the thought of her being in seriously dirty clothes all day. AIBU to raise it with nursery basically?

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BusyMum47 · 29/09/2023 06:48

ifellintoarabbithole · 19/09/2023 22:10

I see dirty clothes as the sign of a good day so that wouldn't bother me at all.

But I wouldn't be happy about a filthy face - especially caked on snot.

This. ⬆️

Messy clothes...having fun...all kids likely the same...no one cares.

Dirty, snot encrusted face...does indicate lack of basic attention.

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